The Lute Family Blog

A Journey's First Step

2012-01-28T21:14:00.000-08:00

You know, there are a lot of great adventures to be had in this world, and they all start by taking that first step. It could be anything, from asking that girl out for coffee, to starting the engine of your car, to stepping onto an airplane.

We're setting out an a great adventure as a family, and we took the first step. We've been preparing and praying and hoping for a long time, but none of that requires any "step".

That's what we did today. We took a first step that puts faith into action. Casey and I got all that we needed to get together for our initial application to start the adoption process. We copied our driver's licenses, and I called our health insurance to make sure that I answered questions correctly for the application. We feebly took pictures using the timer of our family- complete with Obie. That was no easy task.

But when all of it was done, and all the questions filled out, the check written and the envelope stuffed, I dropped it all off into the mailbox where I hope it will go fast enough to secure the last spot in the two programs we're applying for: The Loving Options Program and African American Infant Program at Christian Family Adoptions.

If it's not fast enough, that's okay. We'll wait until there's an opening, for we know that God has a plan.

So here we go.

First Step: done.


Yeah, wouldn't you want to bless this family with YOUR child?!

(Don't worry. That wasn't a photo that we included with our paperwork!)

Second Annual Goyukkah

2011-12-30T15:53:00.000-08:00

It's back! This year we wanted to celebrate a night of Hanukkah again. We enjoy trying the different foods, and rejoice in the reminder that Jesus is the Light of the World. This year our good friends came over, and we had a delicious feast.

Highlights of this year:
Matzo Brittle- it's pretty much amazing.
Casey negotiated getting a spice that isn't sold anywhere in any grocery store by going to a Mediterranean restaurant, and asking the Palestinian proprietor for some of it. What was this spice? Za'atar. Little fact: it came straight from Jerusalem! We used it on chicken, and it was really good!
Homemade latkes and store-bought latkes are great- for different reasons, and our son believed the store-bought ones to be chicken nuggets, so he ate them. "More chicken!" he kept repeating.
Finally, watching the menorah candles burn and guessing which one would burn out the fastest was an intense activity.

All in all, it was a fun night, and as a bonus, I didn't burn myself!

Kids helping unwrap Kisses for the menorah candies that we made.

Matzo Brittle!!!!

Menorahs: Jumbo marshmallows, and kisses, dipped in chocolate, pierced with a pretzel stick.

We look so happy trying to make these pretzels. Little did we know that it was all for naught.

Pretzel, finished, but completely stuck to the wax paper! Fail!

Table decor complete with paper colored by Norah.

Homemade latkes. Good job, Devin!

Safety first!

Za'atar chicken- delish!

LOVE donut holes!

Just One Christmas

2011-12-27T21:24:00.000-08:00

So, here's Christmas...

Friday before Christmas we had all the Lutes together, and then I couldn't find the camera for Christmas Eve at Grandma Karen's or Christmas afternoon back at Grandma and Grandpa Lute's- plus, not having it for Christmas morning. Total memory-capturing fail. What added insult to injury was that the camera was at the bottom of my wonderful big purse. Thankyouverymuch.

Oh well.

Enjoy a few from the Lute one. Haddon really was there. He just doesn't show up in the pictures. Depending on my patience, I may or may not post the cute videos of him opening gifts. He's pretty great at receiving gifts.

Cousins!

LOVE this one of Norah and her Nanna. They have a really sweet bond.

Could Isla look up to her big cousin any more?!

The manliest of gifts: Beard trimmer.

Welcome to our family, Obadiah!

2011-12-17T19:20:00.000-08:00

LOVE Haddon's reaction. He's gotta be one of the sweetest boys on the planet. Here are some other pictures from our first moment of our newest family member at home. We love Obie!

Oh Christmas Tree! and Deck the Halls!

2011-12-17T19:01:00.000-08:00

The Lutes are ready for Christmas!

Thanksgiving 2011

2011-12-10T19:12:00.000-08:00

Thanksgiving this year was a fun time. There wasn't any tur-duc-hen, but it was still delightful. My mother and grandmother joined the Lute side, and it was just an all around nice day to be together.

Why We're Doing What We're Doing

2011-11-04T23:12:00.000-07:00

Waiting is a theme in our lives, especially in the last three years. Among all the things that we have waited for, none has been more awaited than starting the adoption process. The waiting goes far beyond the last three years and back into the days of when Casey and I were dating. For me, it goes even further.

You see, one of the most important people in my life is a woman who I don't even know. I don't know her name. I don't know what she looks like. I don't know a single thing about her except that once upon a time, she carried me in her womb and loved me enough to let me go. That single act has shaped my life so profoundly that I'm not even sure I could completely describe it.

Certain things define who you are, and one of the things that defines me is my adoption. As I have grown up, my adoption has helped me understand the greater thing that defines me: my identity in Christ.

You see, when I was born, I needed a family. For whatever reason, the best thing for me was not staying with my birth mother. I needed help. I needed someone to take me in and call me their own and give me all the things that I couldn't get for myself or do for myself.

I needed to be adopted.

We all need to be adopted.

We are all born into what is not best for us. Sin is not the best for us, and even though it's not best, it's what we choose over and over again, even when we don't want to. We can't be good enough or do anything to solve the sin problem in our lives.

That's where the greatest grace comes in. Jesus died, taking our punishment for the sins we committed, and through faith in him, we're offered a new life, and adopted into God's family.

This is God's plan for his people. Throughout all of Scripture, every story, every book is pointing towards Christ. It is all a giant tapestry woven together for his glory and to restore what was broken by sin.

In love he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ.

(Ephesians 1:5)

Casey and I have talked about this truth so many times. It is dear to our hearts. We have talked about all the things that make us excited about adopting a child into our family. We value the lesson it will teach our children, that families aren't held together by flesh and blood but by love. We want our family to experience God's provision in building our family. We want to be stretched in our faith and step out not knowing what trials or hardships or waiting may come from the adoption process.

Most of all. We want to live out the gospel in a way that so closely parallels what our Savior has done for us.

Please join us. Please walk with journey with us. Pray for us. Pray for our son or daughter who God is preparing for our family. Pray for our family that the Lord would prepare our hearts for the journey, especially our children.

We'll try to keep folks updated here, and of course we'll still share pictures of our adorable children and tell the stories of the funny things they do.

We just want people to know why we're doing what we're doing.

Pixie Dust and Spider Silk

2011-03-07T12:41:00.000-08:00

Day 46: Two Roses

2011-02-15T19:05:00.000-08:00

** One of these posts is not like the others. One of these posts just doesn't belong... Uh, it's this one. It belongs over here at this blog, which is Kelly's personal blog. **

On Valentine's Day, in the middle of my work shift, two of the sweetest little valentines entered the store with flowers in hand.

"Momma! Momma!" my little boy cried, waving a rose in his hand, running towards me. His sister was close behind with a big smile on her face.

Their dad followed. He's my greatest valentine of all.

I'm so glad that I have such special people in my family. Every day they bless my heart. Every day I love them more and more. Every day I learn more about love and about myself and how I fall short of loving them perfectly. Every day they love me anyway, despite those shortfalls.

Thank You Lord that we can love because You first loved us. Thank You that you have given me three of the greatest loves in my life. Thank You for giving us all the many kinds of love that we can feel for each other from friendship to family and romance. My life is so rich because of the treasure that love is and that true, perfect love comes from You. I praise You because You are Love. I praise You because You pour out Your love lavishly on me and on all that You call Your own.

AWANA Grand Prix

2011-01-30T14:56:00.000-08:00

Norah entered her "Rainbow Trout" this year in the AWANA Grand Prix, and if I do say so myself, she did pretty well! Out of 4 heats, she took second twice and first twice! She was pretty excited to take part in it, and the highlight for her was winning a special award, "Most Colorful Car". So she felt pretty special!

Merry Christmas!

2011-01-30T13:16:00.001-08:00

Well, since I finally took down the Christmas lights this week (of course, they'd been turned off a while ago), it's probably time to make our last 2010 Christmas blog post. Here are a few pictures (and one video).

Our tree on Christmas morning:

The kids opening their stockings:
Us with our stockings (it was early in the morning still):
Norah and her Fuzzoodles. The kids had been singing the commercial theme song for them:
They were both excited for their Zhu Zhu pets:
This video captures it well. Dig the unified excitement around the 0:25 mark:

Haddon loved his turtle pillow pet most of all. Right after opening it, he went into his room, took the pillow off his bed, and chucked it into the laundry room. He told us we could get rid of it; he wouldn't be needing it anymore.

After morning festivities at our house, we went over to my parents' place. Here's Kelly and Haddon excited for what's to come:
My parents got Norah a Leapster (her first video game system).
She took to it pretty well:
Playing with baby cousins:Here's Haddon at the end of the day sleeping on his new pillow pet:

Merry Christmas to all.

Various Christmasy Things

2010-12-27T14:30:00.000-08:00

(So I had this post cued up on December 27th, but had trouble uploading the videos, and then kept forgetting to get back to it until now. Enjoy...)

We had some fun times leading up to Christmas this year.

We cut our own tree...

...decorated it...

...decorated some more...
...but didn't really get a good picture of the finished product. No matter, though, as the kids moved the ornaments around on a daily basis, sometimes with less than ideal results from an aesthetic standpoint.

The kids decorated cookies as well...
...and had a lot of fun with it...
...leading to this:

The kids' Sunday School classes both performed at church a couple Sundays ago, as part of a Christmas-themed program. Norah, however, was in a mood and didn't want to join her class. Here's her "performance" from that day:

Haddon did pretty well, but for some reason the video of him didn't want to cooperate in the uploading process. Just imagine him kind of bobbing back and forth and attempting to sing on occasion.

Later that night we went out to Mission Mill Museum for their "Magic at the Mill" night. We had never been before (or even heard of it, for that matter). It was worth attending though, especially since we had half off admission coupons.

The kids got to see Santa Claus...
...although Norah was making every effort to prolong her bad mood.
The entire grounds were lit up, which looked really nice.
Everyone had fun. There were concerts, exhibits, model trains, lights, treats, and craft projects.
Norah tried to keep her pouty mood, but eventually admitted to having a good time.
She made a paper "quilt"...
...so did Haddon...
...and everyone enjoyed the yarn-making demonstration by the lady at the spinning wheel.

On our way out, Haddon joined this quartet for a rousing rendition of "Jingle Bells."

I'm not sure if we'll go back to Mission Mill next Christmas. If there's another coupon, though, I think it would be highly possible. If you've never been before, we'd recommend it.

Finally, here's a Charlie Brown tree I made out of old Christmas tree branches and some spare plywood I had laying around.

I'll try to get to the actual Christmas celebrations soon.

Hanukkah Night

2010-12-27T13:51:00.000-08:00

Okay, it's time to get caught up on the 2010 Christmas season. Kelly's working this week, so I'll be your tour guide. A few weeks ago, we decided to have a Hanukkah celebration (one night only though for this goyim family). We invited my brothers and their families over for the fun. Here's a rundown.

This was our centerpiece, prior to the lighting of the Menorah:

Here Norah is punching the holes out of the dough for the donuts.And these are the finished products, after Kelly fried them up in oil. Most traditional Hanukkah foods are fried in oil, to commemorate the legend of the miracle of the lamp oil in the temple. The donuts were good, but the donut holes were even better.

Here are some more of the foods. There is homemade apple sauce in the bottom left, which tasted much better than it looks in this picture (the picture almost looks like marinara to me). There are also some matzo crackers with cheese. We also had a beef brisket (not pictured) and some latkes.We forgot to take a picture of the latkes (fried potato pancakes), so we had to settle for this shot when there was only one left.

This is me telling the Hanukkah story to the kids. I think Norah got it pretty well, but the littler kids weren't too interested (probably due to my storytelling).
Each of the kids got to light some of the menorah candles. I'm helping my nephew Miles with one:
Miles and Isla (my niece) admiring the menorah after all the candles were lit:
It was a good night. The story of Hanukkah is part of the time between the Old and New Testaments, and understanding it is helpful to understanding the New Testament (the only reference to it in Scripture is in the New Testament, in John 10:22). It can be celebrated in a Christian way as well, remembering Jesus as the true light of the world. Also, all of the foods which we ate (some of which were new to us) were delicious. Hanukkah songs, however, while mostly fun, are even more repetitive than Christmas songs (at least judging by the selection on the Pandora Hanukkah station). And the dreidel game was basically a flop. All in all, though, it was a fun night. We'll probably do it again.

Here are some bonus videos.

This is Haddon, Norah, and Isla playing "Ring Around the Rosie" later that night. Notice Haddon taking a shot to a particularly painful location when they all fall down.

(It wasn't fake.)

And finally, here's Haddon's take on the dreidel song:

The Two Most Important (Little) People in My Life

2010-12-04T20:07:00.000-08:00

Hey, what's all this white stuff?

2010-12-04T20:04:00.000-08:00

Before Thanksgiving we got a dusting of snow. The kids were pumped. Warm, sweet drinks were made, boots were brought out, and hats were worn. It was a lovely day.

Uh, there's no creative title for this. So, Thanksgiving 2010!

2010-12-04T19:57:00.000-08:00

Despite the lack of creativity for the name on this post, at least we thought outside the box for our Thanksgiving feast this year. For a while Casey and I have wanted to try turducken, and this was the year! We got to host, and so we took advantage of the opprtunity to try something different that the kids might get a kick out of.

This year we have a lot to be thankful for as my mother has had a relatively easy "cancer experience" and has been given the grace to deal with it in peace and strength. Adam and Amber went to Ethiopia and met their daughter, and will be travelling soon to bring her home. With hours to spare on New Year's Eve, we'll add her to our family and close out 2010 with great joy!

Norah and Haddon made place markers, and we had a very fun time anticipating all our guests for this year's celebration.

I think it's safe to say it was a hit. A broken gate, burnt out garbage disposal and a wounded bed later, we said good-bye to Thanksgiving 2010 and hello to the Christmas season!

The Spread.

A Place Marker.

(One of the kids' fingerprints for the turkey tail feathers, and then either mine or Casey's thumbprint.)

Norah was pretty proud of their handy work.

The Tur-Duc-Hen.

The Exploding Tur-Duc-Hen.

The Carver.

Spiderman.

Two Legs for Twins.

One Twin Disgusted. One Twin Just Fine.

The Centerpiece. A Collection of Questions to Get You Thinking.

Haddon as Trash.

Big Week

2010-11-09T08:09:00.000-08:00

Saying that this is a big week for my side of the family is stating something a little too simply. I'm not trying to over-dramatize anything, but really, it's a very eventful and emotional week in several ways.

For instance, yesterday my mom had surgery to remove cancer. Today I'll be spending the day with her, helping her out as she recovers. We won't know if it's completely gone or the results of whether anything had spread to lymph nodes for a week. So we're waiting. We're praying. We're hoping. We're joyful. Her breast cancer was caught early, and we're blessed by the technicians and medical minds that discovered the abnormalities and for the development of mammograms.

Here's my little plug, even though Breast Cancer Awareness Month is over: Get your yearly mammogram. It literally may be the difference between life and death. I believe that it may have been the difference between my mom having a pretty minimally invasive surgery with a few weeks of radiation and a fight for her life.

In two days, my sister is leaving our country to go to her daughter's country. There she, her husband and oldest son will see things that they have never seen before. The most important: the newest member of their family. The baby girl that they have been waiting for, praying for, doting after and gazing at in pictures will be in their arms. Fears of flying, and anxiousness about the whole trip are plentiful, but to finally meet this little one, almost 5 months old now, is too sweet to even grasp. The pain of leaving her there is too heart-wrenching to comprehend.

While there, they will see poverty up close. They will get to understand the land that their daughter comes from better. They will see the orphanage that she is in. They will most likely get to see the church where she was graciously placed to be found. I can only imagine the emotions held in the hearts of my sister's family as their adoption journey continues and is in the final stretch.

So yeah.

Big week.

Pumpkin Painting

2010-10-20T14:35:00.000-07:00

Silver Foxes and a Spirit Flame

2010-10-20T14:33:00.000-07:00

We were finally able to go to one of our niece's soccer games, and it really paid off because Cassidy scored two goals! Way to go!

Also, we went to see our nephews, Zachary and Noah, play football. Norah was there to cheer them on (sort of).

First Day of School! First Day of School!

2010-09-25T21:11:00.000-07:00

Remember when Nemo bounced over and over again on and around his dad chanting "First day of school!"? Well, that wasn't how the first day of school was in our house, but the kids were pretty excited to get going.... and a little nervous.

Norah started kindergarten, and we're really excited about where she is. We really like her teacher and her school and her principal- everything! We think that this year will be a great experience for her, and we are looking forward to how the Lord will use her school experience to grow and learn in new ways. She has been very nervous starting out, but it is good for her to be stretched. We're praying that her anxieties and worry ease and that she will learn to trust in the Lord.

Haddon is at the same pre-school as last year, but has a new teacher. We're praying that this year will go well and that his new teacher will become a wonderful ally as we help him speak more and communicate more and move towards being in a typical classroom setting. He's also meeting with a speech therapist once a week. During those times Casey or myself can learn more tools and skills to help Haddon progress his language development.

Norah was a bit nervous. You can see it on her face! Poor dear!

One final hug from dad... and a little nudge! Go on Norah! You're gonna do great!

No fear. No worries. He owns this school.

When we dropped him off, we just walked right in, and that was it. He's a champ!

The Only Time We'll EVER Wear Green and Yellow

2010-09-25T20:55:00.000-07:00

We are orange. For those of you outside the state of Oregon, that means that we root for the Oregon State Beavers. With that said, we still cheer for a team in green, white and yellow... but NOT the University of Oregon's Ducks. No.

We are cheering (literally) for Team Upward!

Upward Sports is an organization formed to reach kids with the gospel through sports. This year our home church is hosting flag football and cheerleading, and Norah is a cheerleader! Check out the fun that we get to have every Saturday.

Two Little Monkeys Jumping on the Bed: Part Deux

2010-09-14T20:31:00.000-07:00

Two Little Monkeys ~~Jumping~~ Dancing on the Bed,

Nink shook her bum while H stood on his head.

Mama grabbed the camera, their Dad, and said,

"Quick! Let's watch our monkeys dancing on the bed!"

The Big One

2010-09-14T20:26:00.000-07:00

The Oregon State Fair is a big fair. This year there was a dinosaur exhibit, and so we headed out to enjoy the sights and smells (well, some of the smells) of Oregon's Big One.

We Welcome Kylie Marie

2010-09-08T12:19:00.000-07:00

As we reached July, we just waited and waited for Kyle and Kari (Casey's brother and his wife) to have their second child. It's a bit more suspenseful to wait for their kids to be born because they like to keep the gender a mystery! Boy? Girl? We were very excited to meet this new little one.

But the day came, and on July 11th, National Free Slurpee Day, we got the pleasure of meeting Kylie Marie. She has been an instant hit in our family, and we are so blessed to add her among the ones we love.

Fireworks

2010-09-08T12:11:00.000-07:00

We set off a few small fireworks at Casey's parents' house this year before Independence Day, and then on the holiday, we spent the day together as a family and set off our own fireworks. What was fun was that we were completely, utterly, and totally outdone by our neighbors. They must have spent hundreds on illegal fireworks that were so so so much fun to watch! So we took in the sights and enjoyed their frivolity. From our neighborhood, we can walk up a hill and see a long ways. So we were able to see the big fireworks display at a nearby golf course, and see how many other people outside our neighborhood had spent hundreds on illegal fireworks! All in all, it was a nice way to celebrate America and the freedoms that we still have. We pray that the Lord will watch over us and protect those freedoms that so many men and women have sacrificed their lives to preserve.

Our Boy Turns Four

2010-09-08T11:58:00.000-07:00

hat's great about Haddon's birthday this year is that it was the first year that he was actually "into" it. He was pumped about his cake and party and everything. If you know Haddon, then you'll know that he isn't as mature as other children his same age. While other kids get excited about their birthday and communicate what they like by 2 or 3, our son took until his 4th birthday to do that, and it was so sweet.

This year Haddon has been all about pirates, and so we went with that this year. We met at a nearby park, and invite cousins to play and have cupcakes and open presents. The pictures really speak for themselves.

Enjoy.

Thus Ends Pre-School

2010-09-08T08:18:00.000-07:00

Norah and Haddon attended pre-school together, and at the end of the year had a celebration. Norah graduated, and will be moving on to kindergarten, but Haddon will be at his pre-school one more year. Here are some shots of them and of their teacher, B.J.
Haddon won't have B.J. this year, and I haven't met his new teacher yet. I'm praying that he will have an understanding and wise teacher who will work with Casey and I to help Haddon grow and learn in special ways that he needs.

I Guess We Missed Summer

2010-09-07T21:13:00.000-07:00

We'll catch everyone up soon. Quick rundown:

Norah did a GREAT job getting her eyes checked. So great that the doctor could tell she needs glasses. So you'll see pictures of her in glasses soon. (That's why I took her out to ice cream)

Haddon turned 4, and we celebrated with a sweet Pirate-themed birthday. I will say that his cake was the coolest cake I've ever made.

We went on vacation to Sunriver with Casey's side of the family.

We welcomed new niece Kylie Marie. She's amazing.

My sister and brother-in-law got their referral for their baby girl from Ethiopia. We're praying that she will be able to come home by the end of the year. I'll tell you about how I broke down at work, and had people staring at me when I got that call... oh wait I just did.

I'm working nearly full-time at LensCrafters (where I heard said news of my new niece), and Casey is getting closer and closer to finishing his masters. I was able to go down to The Master's College and sit in on some of his classes and meet some of his classmates that he's been talking about.

You know you want to read all about it! So, stay tuned. Maybe you'll be able to read about all this by Christmas! Woo-hoo!

Cinco de Mayo

2010-05-30T13:59:00.000-07:00

On May 5th we made maracas. I took little boxes of yogurt covered raisins (plain raisins will stick together and not shake), glued then together with a craft stick in between, wrapped them up, and let the kids decorate one each.

Then we proceeded to form a band. Haddon did some conducting. He's amazing.

Hi. Welcome to Cold Stone.

2010-05-27T10:02:00.000-07:00

Can you guess why I took Norah to Cold Stone?

Easter

2010-05-27T09:57:00.000-07:00

This is our attempt at a family picture on Easter. Notice the not-so-clean home. Norah's birthday party was on that Saturday, and then we had Resurrection Sunday.

It was a whirlwind weekend for us, but it was a lovely time to remember once again the glorious riches we have in Christ.

Happy Birthday to Norah!

2010-05-27T09:42:00.000-07:00

Wow. We figure it's all over from here on out. Norah is five. Next is kindergarten, and then things will snowball from there. Before we know it, she'll be learning to drive and looking at colleges.

The theme: Fairies.

The place: Pietro's Pizza Parlor

It was incredibly busy. I'm not sure what happened. Last year we held her party at the same place, and it was lovely. This year, the place was packed and we had about 15 unexpected guests- wanted, but unexpected! So we were crammed it, and although the adults felt the squeeze, the kids were oblivious to it. They just had fun. Because it was so tight, the pictures are limited. We were more concerned with crowd control! Sorry!

Smile!

2010-05-26T19:42:00.000-07:00

During Haddon's evaluation, one of the doctors commented that our son didn't smile much...

What do you think? We're thinking that he just wasn't that thrilled with being in a doctor's office for over 3 hours, but that's just us.

Norah Turned Five

2010-05-24T21:27:00.000-07:00

Although I'm unable to post all the pictures from Norah's birthday party right now, (which was in the beginning of April, thankyouverymuch!) I can still give you a preview:

That's right. You can say it, "Awww." That is one adorable Garden Talent Fairy!

Can you guess her birthday party's theme?

When Cousins Visit

2010-05-24T21:24:00.000-07:00

Living near family has advantages. One advantage is the morning visit from cousins!

What a better way to spend the morning than to dress up as a water-talent fairy, Tigger and a cop with a soft side?

Cutie Patootie

2010-05-24T21:22:00.000-07:00

Bath Time

2010-05-24T21:18:00.000-07:00

Our kids love baths. They will stay in there until their fingers are like prune sticks. Lovely, I know...

Haddon Had His Evaluation

2010-05-24T11:44:00.000-07:00

We have some updating to do here.

Norah celebrated her fifth birthday, and there are other things that we would like to share.

But more people follow this blog than my personal one, so I wanted to link this up. We took Haddon up to Portland for a 3+ hour evaluation by a panel of doctors and specialists.

You can read about how that went here.

And eventually Casey or myself will post pictures and let you know other happenings in our life. Really, we will!

Resurrection Tree

2010-03-28T12:58:00.001-07:00

I don't know if anyone else who reads this that has young children can relate to this, but in our family, we keep developing traditions and try to see what different ways we can teach our children and make special times, well, special!

I think Easter has been a harder one for us, in some ways. We have baskets for the kids, and we talk about the crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus; but we have yet to think of a way to really celebrate the entirety of Passion Week.

Until now...

Since today is Palm Sunday, we are going to go find our own "palm"... really just a branch. On every day this week, including today, we are going to hang different ornaments on the branch that represent a different event or aspect of this week leading up the the death and resurrection of Christ. I drew pictures of a palm branch, money sack, cross, empty tomb, grapes and bread, a torch, and a wash bowl representing different stories. Norah and Haddon colored them, and I'll cut them out and get them ready to hang on our Resurrection Tree. It's kind of like advent for the Easter season.

I just wanted to share this idea with anyone that might read this, especially if you're struggling with making this time of year real to your little ones. I look forward to developing this tradition in our home, and how it will illustrate the greatness of Christ's sacrifice for us. A very sweet resource that I refer to a lot is Noel Piper's book, Treasuring God in Our Traditions. I would encourage you to pick up a copy as you try to think of ways that your family can glorify God in your traditions.

Have a blessed week as we reflect and anticipate the celebration of Christ's taking the punishment for our sins, and conquering death, giving us life in Him.

He is risen! He is risen indeed!

Haddon Modeling

2010-03-25T10:14:00.001-07:00

We were recently at Old Navy, and Haddon wanted me to take some pictures of him with my phone while his mom and sister were busy shopping. He had some interesting ideas for poses. Take a look:

Then sister came back and they tried on some shades:

Dinosaur Daycation Part 2

2010-03-22T11:13:00.000-07:00

Sorry this took so long to post after part one, but I already showed these pictures to my mom and I doubt anyone else reads this. Either way, here goes...

After going to OMSI, we drove over to the Rose Garden to see the show Walking With Dinosaurs. It was a good, fun show, and I would recommend it even though it's a bit pricey. Also, if our kids were a little older, I probably would have had to debrief them a bit more after the show regarding all of the evolutionary/old earth dogma, but since they're 4 and 3, I don't think they processed too much of it. Overall, it was fun, though. Here are some pictures. We didn't get all that many since they didn't allow flash photography...

This is before the show started. We got there early and took our seats.

I don't know why Norah was making this face.

This is the stage when the lights were still on.

Haddon observing:

Norah waiting patiently:

H wanting to use the camera. "My turn, my turn--peeeeaase!"

The lights went down and the show started.

This is the only photo I took of any of the dinosaurs, but there are some videos following this if you're curious what the show looked like.

Haddon got very upset during intermission when his mom left him to go to the restroom.

The kids' grandma gave them some money to buy a souvenir at the show. They each picked one of these dinosaur hat/mask things. They were both destroyed by noon the next day.

Haddon liked his so much that he wore it into Red Robin for dinner after the show, which a lot of the workers and customers got a big kick out of.And here are some videos of the show...

Haddon enjoying his theater-style seat:

Stegosaurus fending off a predator:

Mother brontosaurus finding her child:

Two triceratops facing off:

More dinosaurs:

This is Haddon watching the show. He was pretty dialed in:

So that's it. It was a fun day and we were grateful to enjoy it. The kids still talk about, so we know they appreciate having been able to go as well.

Tomorrow...

2010-03-10T09:16:00.000-08:00

**Update** The test will be on May 20th now because I am so sick and couldn't take Haddon up today. We'll let you know how it goes when we finally get up there.

Eventually we'll share with you all the second half of our daycation, but I wanted to share a quick word on what will be happening tomorrow.

It's not like I know all that will happen tomorrow, but I do know that at about 7 in the morning, I will need to load our son into the car and head towards Portland. We will be going to a clinic where he will be evaluated further, specifically looking at if he may be autistic. I will admit, that I would rather be going straight to Doernbecher or OHSU, but to Kaiser we will go first. And depending on what I think of how they did, we'll go on from there.

Today we're hoping that a relaxing day at home will help us to be ready for tomorrow. I have a wicked cold that has made me uber-congested, achy and all that junk. So I'm home sick from all the day's activities and hope that the kids will be kind today- to me and to each other!

Please pray for us as we seek the best for Haddon. No matter what he is labeled or not labeled with, he is the same dear, sweet boy. He's funny and smart and a pure delight to have in our family. We would not change him for anything, but we will do everything that we can to help him grow.

"Day-cation" Part 1

2010-03-01T18:39:00.000-08:00

Yesterday we went on our family "day-cation" (as Kelly called it), a one day extravaganza of fantasticality. After church we headed to Del Taco for lunch. Tacos are one of the few things Norah will eat, and Haddon will pretty much only eat fries at restaurants, so it's a good fit. After that, we headed up to Portland to visit OMSI for a couple hours. Here's how it went:

The big new attraction at OMSI is "Samson," one of the most complete T-Rex skeletons in the world. Here's Norah posing in front of Samson's skull (this is the real dinosaur skull they found):

Here's Norah in front of the entire assembled skeleton (w/ replica skull):

Here's one of Kelly and the kids in front of the skeleton:

Here I am with Norah:

And here's Haddon's commentary on the dinosaur skeleton:

They had some other dinosaur paraphernalia as well:

Here we are taking in some sort of presentation on planets:

The kids touched a snake and were able to see some other small animals as well:

Haddon was impressed by the "pirate" skeleton:

The kids tried putting on a puppet show:

Here's a taste of Haddon's "jibber jabber," which is becoming less frequent as he keeps learning how to talk better and better:

After that we went downstairs to the space exhibit. Here's Norah in space:

Here's a thermal family portrait:

Here we are inside a multimedia presentation on galaxies. The kids look more fascinated than they probably actually were:

I was happy to see this silhouette of an X-Wing on the wall of the space exploration exhibit:

Lastly, we took in a show at the planetarium before leaving:

After we were done at OMSI, we packed into the van and headed over to the Rose Garden Arena for the second event of our day. It was much cooler than OMSI, and we'll fill you in on it in the next post...

Sweet Face, Funny Face

2010-02-12T04:26:00.000-08:00

Samuel Scott Lute

2010-02-12T04:22:00.000-08:00

We're pleased to introduce you to the newest Lute...

Sam was born on February 3, 2010 at a whopping 5 lbs. 14 oz. and 19 inches. Welcome sweet Sam! We're so happy to have our new nephew and cousin!

They Won't Mind... Won't They?

2010-02-12T04:18:00.000-08:00

He's not potty trained, and really he's a ways off. But his big sister likes to support him.

They won't mind the pictures, right?

Haddon Sleeps..

2010-02-12T04:15:00.000-08:00

wherever he wants.

Pixie Hollow Tortilla Snowflakes

2010-02-12T03:53:00.000-08:00

Want to make a mess, load your children up on sugar, and have fun? Well, here's how.

Visit Pixie Hollow, online, and look through the downloads. You will find recipes, and crafts that are just wonderful for little girls that wish they were fairies (and I'll be honest- for grown-ups that wish they were fairies too!)

Heat oven to 400.
Warm tortillas about 10-15 seconds in the microwave. Fold twice, and cut into snowflakes.

Place them on a cookie sheet, and brush them with vegetable oil. If you want to attempt to keep your cookie sheet more clean, you can place wax paper or foil underneath.... but really, it's just a formality. There's going to be a mess.

Bake for 4-6 minutes until golden. Then, sift powdered sugar on top.

Drop your snowflake on the floor twice.

Enjoy.

Bask in the aftermath.

Celebrate winter.

Preferably, clean child before climbing on furniture.

Where to Begin?!

2010-02-12T03:34:00.000-08:00

We had completely fallen out of the blogaspere, and now it is time to jump back in.....

Where do I begin?

Uh....

Oh yeah, Christmas 2009. (YIKES! We are behind!!!)

Norah's arrangement of our nativity. We like to see Jesus lifted high. (And the picture is a family tradition: "Gumpy Claus".... ask us about it sometime.)

Snow Day (sort of)

2009-12-30T13:50:00.000-08:00

So it snowed yesterday. We hardly got any out here (some areas nearby got a lot more), but the kids went outside anyway.

Norah and I made the best snowman we could. I told you there wasn't much snow:

Here's a close-up:
Here's a cute one of Haddon before we went for a walk:

Jingle Bell Dance

2009-12-08T20:10:00.000-08:00

Tree Trimming

2009-12-02T21:23:00.000-08:00

This last weekend we bought a Christmas tree (Do you like it? You can get one too; just click here) and decorated it. Here are some pictures, not exactly in chronological order, for your viewing pleasure.

Here's the finished product when the kids got done with it (Kelly went back and rearranged it a bit better later that night):
This is my own tree decorating tradition. My OSU Beaver ornaments get top billing, just beneath the star, until the Civil War football game is played. If the Beavers win, they stay there. If they lose (especially if they lose embarrassingly, like last year), they get relegated to a more shameful location, closer to the back and further down:
Here's Norah in a cute picture. It's too bad about the funny light coming from the blinds:
I think this one really shows how pretty Norah is:
This is Norah holding her first Christmas ornament. It actually says "Granddaughter's first Christmas." My parents got it for her when she was a baby:
This is Haddon's first Christmas ornament. Some day we'll actually get his baby picture put into it. He's three now:
This is a good one of Haddon carefully decorating. It is a good contrast to the horrific events of this morning, when he ripped an angel ornament from the tree and decapitated it:
(Oh, and if you click on that and make it larger you can see a clothespin reindeer ornament in the box in the background. I made that in Kindergarten.)

By the way, Haddon chose to forgo pants while taking part in the tree decorating:

That's all for now. Go Beavers to all, and to all a good night.

Abigail's Trees

2009-11-28T09:40:00.000-08:00

Most people, if they get to know me, will find out pretty soon that I am passionate and come from a family that is passionate about adoption. Being adopted myself, and experiencing the joy of being adopted into the body of Christ, has given us the desire to adopt one day ourselves.

Well, my sister is in the process right now, and is adopting through Ethiopia. They are on a waiting list and need to raise the last bit of funds necessary.

You can help this holiday season! If you're getting a Christmas tree, get a great tree from them, and support bringing home our future niece and cousin, Abigail!

Visit their blog and get all the details.

My Bah-boo

2009-11-24T07:47:00.000-08:00

This past weekend we took my grandmother out to lunch at Red Robin, and the kids got to pick out a balloon after our meal.

Norah was proud of her red one, and Haddon chose a green one. We walked out to the car and just as we were nearing it, away flew Haddon's wonderful green balloon into the grey sky!

"My bah-boo!" he exclaimed. He wasn't upset, just surprised. We started the process of buckling in the children, and suddenly Casey appeared with another green balloon.

He explained that a little girl entering the restaurant saw Haddon lose his balloon, went in and picked out a new green one for him. Her mother looked proud.

I would have been too. It was very sweet, and it was a sweet blessing to our family- especially Haddon.

Too bad there wasn't another philanthropic little girl around later that day when a gust of wind took away Norah's balloon out of the car...

Candyland

2009-11-23T10:45:00.000-08:00

Norah surprises me sometimes with revealing her vocabulary. While we were playing Candyland, I drew the ice cream cone. It was at the beginning of the game, and anyone who it familiar with Candyland knows that the ice cream cone is the best "treat" card to draw because it moves you the furthest. Well, when I did, Norah exclaimed, "Wow! That's incredible!"

November 2nd

2009-11-02T07:23:00.000-08:00

Today marks a bit of a milestone for our family. We have officially been Oregon residents for one year. It was a year ago that we were all packed up in a mostly empty house, took the kids to Mesa Mall and then to the airport to pick up their grandparents. Yesterday marked a long day of travel, and today was our arrival day- to begin a new chapter.

When we think about where we were a year ago, it's amazing to see God's provision and strength that he has given us. We are blessed by the healing he has provided as well.

We are also keenly aware of the plans that we have had, but how those plans have not been the Lord's. God's plan is always perfect, always better, and always for the best for those who are His.

So, although today is a day just like any other in many ways, in other ways, it is a day that we can praise the Lord for his perfect goodness this last year, through every tear, frustration, heartache, and joy.

Thumbs Up!

2009-10-26T14:26:00.000-07:00

Hurray for Norah!

Norah has officially stopped sucking her thumb. And we celebrated by having Grandma and Grandpa Lute over for dinner. We gave Norah a gift, and of course, Grandma brought something over too.

This is a big deal for our litle girl, and we hope that she realizes how proud we are of her for gaining self-control in this area!

Carving Pumpkins

2009-10-26T14:20:00.000-07:00

Before the mess:

Scooping out a mess:

Carving up a mess:

Why it's worth the mess:

Preschool has begun

2009-10-26T14:08:00.000-07:00

Well, after meeting with folks and getting Haddon evaluated, we came up with a plan for helping our little guy catch up both linguistically and cognitively. Part of that plan is registering him in a preschool. The advantages and disadvantages of a specialized preschool and regular preschool were discussed, and we decided (Casey, myself, and two case workers), that specialized might be the route.

So, I visited the preschool that had an opening, and asked the questions that I had for the teacher. Casey and I also felt that since Haddon would be in something, that we should enroll Norah as well.

Haddon's plan is that he will go to preschool twice a week, and have speech therapy at his school twice a month. If we choose, we may look into additional speech, but that would be at a cost to us. Additionally, we are having Norah attend the same preschool as a "typical peer," meaning that she will set the example for the others in the school. She's only going once a week. I think this will be a good chance for her to have one-on-one time with me once a week, and expand her horizons a bit outside the home.

I will tell you though, that their first day was harder on me than them! After dropping my babies off, I held back a couple tears as my heart was full, letting them go-even for a short time!

Here they are on their first day...

How to Build a Fairy House

2009-10-17T19:35:00.000-07:00

Norah got some inspiration here. And she just couldn't wait to get outside and build her first fairy house.

There are rules though:
Nothing artificial can be used.
And you cannot hurt or disturb nature...

Insipred? I hope so.

Boots

2009-10-17T19:33:00.000-07:00

Haddon put on Great Grandpa Lute's boots at cousin Isla's first birthday party.

Mischief

2009-10-17T19:30:00.000-07:00

... is his middle name...

unrolling toilet paper is his game....

Oh Haddon! For shame! For shame!!

Getting It

2009-10-12T08:07:00.000-07:00

Read a story here.

I have some things to get up on our family blog here, but I have to actually take the time to upload some pictures and post and stuff.

In the meantime, you can read about Norah understanding more and more what sin is. May this knowledge draw her closer and closer to repentance and forgiveness at the feet of Jesus!

Evaluating Haddon

2009-10-02T07:30:00.000-07:00

For a while I felt bad that I wasn't getting Haddon into speech therapy immediately after moving to Oregon, but now I'm glad that I did. I mean, I would rather he hadn't any interruption in the speech so that he could be further than he is now, but I think the process would have been overwhelming to me.

But now we are getting him into it, and since he had his third birthday, he needs evaluating.

There have been concerns with Haddon, especially figuring out what he understands and what he doesn't. If he doesn't understand a command or a standard that he has to be held to, then he can't be expected to obey it until he does. Does that make sense? Nonetheless, there have been times in which we have needed to require certain behavior, and he seems to get overwhelmed. An average three-year-old would understand, but we were finding it seemed more difficult for Haddon. Above that, he just isn't communicating as he should- yet.

So, after an initial screening, it was determined that he would have to do an extensive evaluation, and it would take about 2 hours. Well, the appointment was yesterday, and it was intimidating but good. I was intimidated because these days children are, unfortunately, labeled very quickly and easily. I didn't want our son labeled as something that he may not be just so that the powers at be could proceed with some sort of plan that may or may not meet his individual needs. I was nervous that they would not see our son's gifts or understand how far he has come.

What was good was that no labeling with any disorder or anything was done. They simply did tests to see what Haddon was understanding was. He did better in a couple areas that I didn't expect- namely understanding the words "in", "out", "on", and "off". I haven't been sure if he understood those concepts, but he showed that he did. But for the most part, everything confirmed what we already knew about our son, and actually helped pinpoint some things that helps me understand where Haddon has room to grow.

He understands simple nouns like "ball", "baby", and "dog", but has a harder time either understanding or expressing that he knows what "running, "drinking" and "playing"- action words. We could tell because when he saw a picture of a dog, he would point and say, "doggy!" but looking at a page of children doing things and asked to identify the actions, he got overwhelmed and didn't want to answer- possibly that he couldn't.

So, he will have a plan set up to help him with cognitive understanding as well as verbal communication. Within a few weeks someone will call to set up a time when we can sit down and establish an education plan. If Haddon follows suit with what how he has responded in the past, I believe that he will catch up. He's a smart kiddo. I think that he processes things differently, and as parents and his first teachers, we need to identify how to best educate him and help him understand. I'm glad that we will be learning how to do that, and hopefully, be able to communicate that to grandparents, and other important people in his life.

Please be in prayer as we seek to do the best that we can for our son. I personally am so proud to be his mommy, and he is such a special and precious part of our family. I would not change one thing about him! Pray that we will be wise advocates on behalf of our son, able to help give a clear picture of where he is and what we see in him. And please be in prayer that the professionals working with our son will be the right person(s) to work with him with patience and love and understanding.

Our Leftover Chili

2009-09-21T18:33:00.000-07:00

So tonight I wanted to use up our leftover shredded pork. I had just had a pulled pork bbq sandwich, and I didn't have any buns, so that was not going to happen. I came up with this combo, and it was very good. You can use pork or chicken.

"Leftover Chili"
choice of shredded meat: chicken or pork
1 can diced tomatoes
1 can chicken broth
1 can black beans, drained
1 can kidney beans, drained
1 can diced green chiles
1 tsp. minced garlic
a couple handfuls of diced onion
chili powder, cumin, paprika, cayenne pepper, and black pepper to taste

Put it all in a big pot, and stir it all up. Simmer for 20 minutes and it's ready!

This was so easy, and it was really good!

Quote of the Week

2009-09-19T19:46:00.000-07:00

The quote of the week comes from Norah:

*"Oh no! Where are my pants?!"

*She had gone to the bathroom, and was wearing a long shirt. When she pulled it up to reveal her belly, she was genuinely surprised to find that she wasn't wearing pants.

Splashing

2009-09-14T07:50:00.000-07:00

At Waterfront Park there is a splash pad.

Haddon stayed dry.

Norah got wet.

It was smashing.

Well, it was splashing.

Is it Mardis Gras?

2009-09-08T09:13:00.000-07:00

Norah made a mask.

Haddon likes wearing the mask.

A Growing Family

2009-09-08T09:06:00.000-07:00

Don't get too excited from the title. We're not adding another HUMAN member to our family... just fish.

Casey took Norah out and they got some fish. Sadly we lost our strong fish Salt and Pepper. Salt passed away a while ago, but Pepper held on longer and perished while we were on vacation.

So let me introduce 4 new fish...

From Left to Right:

"Blackorice" (pronounced like licorice), "Fishy-fish", "Orangey" (the orange one swimming away), and No Name.

Yeah. Norah named them. We're working on a name for the mostly white one. We'll keep you posted.

UPDATE: The mostly white fish with the deep orange spot on its head is named "Spot".

Brilliant, aren't we?

Men-i-Vans

2009-09-08T08:57:00.000-07:00

On our way back from vacation at Eaglecrest, we stopped in Bend to visit Andy and Sara Purscelley. We got a visit, and so help me, the children played with Linus and Owen so wonderfully. They all got along, and it was a delight to just visit with adults knowing your kids are having fun.

Andy is very proud of his newly acquired minivan (as he should be!), and since we have the same model, and since men are proud to drive minivans, these former college roommates had to pose for a few shots.

"T & C"

Yeah, We're Still Here...

2009-08-18T08:26:00.000-07:00

... There's just nothing too interesting going on.

Well, not that it isn't interesting, but maybe not to most.

Everyone's sickness passed just in time to go up to Portland and see Casey's cousin Alyssa get married. It was a bit of a bumpy evening as: 1) We forgot the wedding present. 2) We remembered that we forgot the wedding present right as Casey's parents pulled up meeting us on the highway on-ramp. 3) There was a wreck on I-5 that we anticipated, so the plan was to shoot off on another road to go around it. 4) There was another wreck on I-5 that we didn't anticipate, south of the other. 5) It took us about an hour and a half to make a trip that is usually about 45 minutes.

But despite the cruelties of I-5 Northbound, it was a beautiful wedding, and a joy to see Alyssa get married. She was a beautiful bride, and she is a beautiful person who loves Jesus.

The next morning, I went to a baby shower for a friend who I have not been able to see since high school. That was a sweet blessing, and I am glad I was able to attend...

BUT I had to get right home from that, so that I could pack last-minute for a big family vacation at Eagle Crest, which was fun, but not without some unfortunate moments. If I get some pictures, then I can write a post about it. That may be the most interesting thing that has happened of late.

I have not one picture from these events because the flash on our camera is broken. So I am dependant on the sharing of photos from others. But we have a plan to get one.

Since He's Been Home

2009-07-28T19:04:00.000-07:00

Casey returned home safe and sound, but life isn't as usual. He caught something, and has been running a fever ever since. I have a little something, and am hoping that it won't be as bad as what dear husband has. The Salem area is experiencing one of the biggest heat waves in recorded history, and we're kind of laid up coughing and being generally pathetic- crazy huh?!

So yeah, life isn't back to normal yet, but we're sure glad Casey's back... fever and all!

What's worse: 102 degrees outside or 102 degrees in your inside?

We're not sure, but that was yesterday. Today it's 102 inside and 107 outside.... yikes!

That's what's been going on since he's been home.

Two Days...

2009-07-23T22:51:00.000-07:00

until Haddon can wrestle with his daddy again. (He's a little rough for me at times!)

until Norah can tell someone ELSE every thought that pops into her head.

until I have reinforcements for giant insects. (Seriously, two HUGE spiders have come after me!)

until my very best friend in the whole wide world is where he belongs.

Just two days to go, and Casey will be home.

Surviving Without Casey

2009-07-15T19:20:00.000-07:00

The kids and I have been on our own for a bit now, and there are 11 days to go until we are reunited with Casey. I have been trying to keep ourselves occupied as much as possible, and I'll try to remember what in the world we have been doing.

The day he left, we drove to PDX to drop Casey off; I held back tears as he walked to his fate at the ~~groping station~~ security gate. And then we proceeded to drive back to Salem, but not before stopping to visit my grandmother in North Salem. I left Haddon there since he didn't want to leave and since he hasn't really spent all that much time with his Nanna Bigler. So off Norah and I went to our home where we threw ~~everything we needed~~ the things I remembered to get, and hopped back into the car to head to Silverton where my mom lives. We had dinner with my mom, and I'm not sure what she was thinking, but she didn't have any salsa in her home. So, I coaxed Norah into getting back into the car and going to Safeway where we got salsa.

The next morning I went to my mom's church, and then back to Silverton and spent a good amount of time there. We wanted to head home right as a monsoon struck, and so we held off a bit, and then left.

When I got home there were 3 messages. Oops. I forgot to tell everyone where I was. Sorry Lute side.

Monday we played with Casey's mom at her house, and in the evening ate dinner with Casey's older brother and family. The kids were horrible at bedtime, and I was looking at the long time alone with despair.

Tuesday was errand day. I had to drop off papers for my grandmother at an office, and then took four sacks of clothes for consignment, and then donated stuff to Goodwill where the gentleman manning the truck told me I was bossy. Whatever dude. When one takes 3 and 4 year olds out on errands, you'll give out a few commands here and there- or a lot, repeatedly. Into Wal-mart we went for diapers, and had to go home because mommy had had enough that morning.

What really got my goat on Tuesday was the trip in the afternoon for milk. Safeway thinks it's a funny joke to only have two checkers open when half the clientele is in line to be checked out. It's also funny that out of 6 self-checkouts, only 4 were operating. Well done Safeway. Without going into too many details, I ended up marching out of the store carrying 2 gallon jugs of milk and my 30-pound son. Again, well done Safeway.

So I resolved that today had to be a better day, and it was. The farmers' market trip went smoothly, thanks to my mother-in-law's help. Attending Wacky Wednesday at my friend Jamie's home went fine, and we even had a break in the day when I actually had to wake up my children and prepare for a trip to the Riverfront Park to play in the fountains and have dinner with Nanna, Aunt Candace, cousins, and even Great Grandpa and Grandma Miller! Totally wish I had pictures of that. Haddon was only a little less daring than his 14-month-old cousin, and Norah just went for it!

Checking Out Mr. Snail with Tayler

Now, if I can just get through bedtime... then we will be on our way to surviving without my dear husband.

Norah's First Trip to the Dentist

2009-07-11T10:21:00.000-07:00

It started out fine. She was curious to hear about CHAP, and funny little beaver that visits the dentist for the first time. Norah listened to the nurses tell the group about the different instruments they would see, and that was interesting. She even smelled the raspberry toothpaste, and looked somewhat excited to possibly try it.

And then it was Norah's turn for the x-rays. After finding the ten hidden toothbrushes in a poster as we waited, she stepped into the x-ray area with a little bit of timidity.

And then her mouth was too small- or she wouldn't hold her mouth open wide enough- for the paper film stuff to fit. Okay. No problem.

The nurse tried a different tactic. GAG. Uh, let's try again. GAG. Never mind.

And that's what did it. Norah was very hesitant the rest of the time. She reluctantly let the dentist count her teeth. She refused to wear the provided sunglasses. She cringed at the bright light. I put the sunglasses on. She wanted nothing to do with getting her teeth brushed by the spinning toothbrush. But she did allow the her teeth to be "painted" by fluoride, and to be flossed.

Oh well. We'll try again in six months.

Oh yeah, and she needs to stop sucking her thumb- no duh!

Celebrating the USA

2009-07-06T13:11:00.001-07:00

Ta-da! We finally stopped and had someone take a shot of all of us... but we're sun-speckled, and Norah is looking somewhere else. Casey's mom has some better shots on her camera and once she e-mails those to us, we'll share. But look at how patriotic we are!

To celebrate the 4th, we went to the Casey's parents' house and barbequed, roasted marshmallows, and lit some fireworks. Also, I made ginormous brownies for another birthday celebration for Haddon. (He's not a big fan of cake- go figure!)

It was a long and fun day that we enjoyed very much.

I don't know why Haddon looks like he's afraid of me... really, I'm a nice mommy!

Pappa gave all the kids a ride on his tractor- very cool!

Nanna got some cheap little squirt guns, and the kids went nuts over them! They ran around squirting each other, and giggling. Of course Cade and Haddon had a duel... they kept doing this- just stopping and attacking each other with the guns. Such boys!

This expression of Cade's is priceless. He's shooting and being squirted.

Neither one of the baby cousins liked being in this floaty toy, but Haddon sure did!

Haddon is Three

2009-07-06T12:56:00.000-07:00

Our little guy is now 3 years old!

Time has flown by, and to celebrate another year of the H-Bomb, we opened presents and went to the coast for the day...

Wall-E was his absolute favorite toy. We couldn't even get him to eat his pancakes for breakfast! And when we would get out of the car, he would get so sad to leave Wall-E behind. Upon returning to the car, he would start saying, "Wawee!" Before we could get the door open for him.

Haddon loved being buried! He kept scooping sand onto himself. All those buckets and shovels were presents this year. Norah got a special pink bucket.

It was a great day to get away from the heat, and enjoy the beautiful Oregon coast. We hit Mo's, and flew kites too. But we don't have pictures of that.. sorry!

Strawberries, Coasters and Daddies

2009-06-22T07:24:00.000-07:00

We had a nice Father's Day this year. The kids took great naps after church to go over to their Nanna and Poppa's house. There we got to spend time with Casey's grandparents, and his brothers and their families. We also had some strawberries with angel food cake and vanilla ice cream(which is my favorite).

After that, we went to Red Robin for dinner, Casey's choice, and had a pretty good meal together watching Haddon eat coasters and suck on the strap that holds the booster seat to the chair... there was no stopping the kid!

No pictures. I forgot.

Demolition Man

2009-06-16T21:19:00.000-07:00

Today I was joined by my little brother to demolish the back end of my shed, which had become waterlogged. Here are some photos and video of it...

What Happened in Bremerton

2009-06-08T09:11:00.000-07:00

Hello all, Casey here.

Some of you might be wondering where we are at in the process with the church in Bremerton. I thought I would wait a bit before updating here, so that the church could inform their people accordingly. Last week I sent an email to a friend of mine who had asked for an update, and rather than rehash everything again I thought I would just copy and paste from that email. So here goes:

This Sunday was my last one at the church in Washington and I thought I would send you an update. I had a meeting with the search committee on Sunday afternoon and they said that they wouldn't be extending a call to me, that it won't be going to a congregational vote. When I asked them why, they stated that "We don't think you want this job." In my interview, they did not get the sense that I really wanted to be there. I am thankful that they came to this conclusion, because it would have been hard for me to decide myself. I told them that I really liked their church, but had been unable to have peace about a decision either way. Kelly and I had talked it over at length, and had decided if they had extended a call that we would need to take a good portion of time and pray about it, since we did not feel good about deciding either way. I think that the church picked up on this hesitancy in my attitude in the interview, and I think that their decision was the right one. For once I was actually glad to have the decision taken out of my hands.

Besides that, they were very encouraging. They believed that I would have been a good fit there doctrinally and philosophically, and I generally agree. They were very encouraging about my preaching as well; they said that they were blessed by my time there and do not regret bringing me up there, and we even discussed the possibility of coming back in the summer if they are in need of pulpit supply. Apparently they received eleven applicants for the job in their first posting, and never strongly considered any of them but me. They told me that the answers I gave to their questionnaire (which was the first step of applying) showed more wisdom and discernment than some men nearly twice my age. So all of that was very encouraging.

I do think that they made the right choice, though. I just think that it was not the right time; the thought of getting up and making another major move just six months after moving from Colorado was daunting. If the same job had been in a closer location, or if it came up a year or two down the road, I think it might have turned out differently. Another pastor from the area who has helped that church out with their search process also interviewed me, and though he liked me as well he wondered if it might be too soon for me to jump right back into ministry after the difficult experiences I've had so far. Perhaps he's right; I don't know. If it's the right circumstance, I don't think it will be a problem. I don't think this was the right one, though--not at this time, at least.

So that's that. But in a bit of good news, my job at McKay was picked back up for next year without even a reduction in hours, so that's good. Also, on Tuesday I have an interview for a job that would be even better, so here's hoping that it works out.

Filling Mom's Shoes and Such

2009-06-05T12:34:00.000-07:00

It's been hot in Oregon (hot being in the 80's, which is hot without AC), and one day Haddon spotted his Little Swimmers, and wanted those on instead of a diaper. I accommodated him. It was cute.

Norah didn't want to be left out.

And I told you that our camera isn't working that great, but I still attempted to capture this moment. Both children came marching out of mom and dad's room, and I looked up to behold Norah in a sea green hat and strappy black shoes, and Haddon donning my winter snow boots. "Yes Sir!" he saluted me (though it didn't sound much like the actual words "yes sir".)

After the pics were taken, he found his famous Woody hat, and began saying, "Yee-haw!"

Again, camera not doing so hot, but oh well. You can get the gist of it.

Can't See?

2009-06-02T07:41:00.000-07:00

Our camera isn't working very well, and we haven't been taking many pictures because of it.

So, that's why you haven't "seen" the kids in a bit.

Sorry.

We're...

2009-05-22T08:02:00.000-07:00

Some may be wondering how all these visits to Washington are going, and although we're not sure how to answer, there are some things that we can say:

We're tired! Today marks our third visit, and it's been a stretch for us to make these road trips each weekend. Last week was a welcome break. With the visits there is a lot on our minds and hearts, and still many questions. That is tiring too!

We're thankful. We are always blessed to meet other saints, and this is a church that has some very sweet believers in it. They are a pleasure to be around, and a sweet and loving group.

We're unsure. We don't know if this is where the Lord is leading us, but we do know that He will be faithful to guide and direct our steps. We're waiting on Him and relying on Him to show us if Casey is a good fit for this body of believers as their pastor, and if they are a good fit for Casey to shepherd.

That's where we are. Please, continue to lift us up in prayer as we seek God's wisdom.

Haddon Eating Ice Cream

2009-05-18T21:34:00.000-07:00

Don't tell Norah, but last week when she was at the kids club program at church, we took Haddon out to ice cream. Here are some cute pictures taken on my phone:

And I Quote...

2009-05-18T20:32:00.000-07:00

To any moms out there: Have you ever said something to your children, and then think, "Did I really just say that?" Well, I had one of those moments the other day when I commanded my child to stop doing something that seemed really strange. As a mom, I say things that no one else really says in the work place or in public. I'm not talking about anything crude... but you'll get the picture in a bit.

On the evening that I took the kids to the Pet Parade, I had my 10-year high school reunion, and of course that makes you start remembering things or thinking about things that you hadn't in a while. One thing that I did in high school was yearbook. My senior year I was the copy editor, which is code for the person that was appointed to proof-read all the stuff before even bothering the real editor with it. At least it gave me a sense of fake importance.

Ahem... Anyway, that year we put a lot of quotes in the yearbook, and it was the staff's job to write down what different people said in class or in the halls with a brief description of what was going on. It made for some pretty funny things, and for good laughs around the yearbook room.

So today, I played a little game with myself. I wrote down some of the everyday things that can be heard coming out of the mouth of the matriarch (that's me!) of the our home- well, at least today. If you ask nicely, I'll tell you what the circumstances surrounding some of these quotes are later.

Did you pee-pee?

He just wants to suck on the duck.

Get your hand out of your pants.

Norah, get out from under the bed. What did you do?

Did you poo-poo?

Haddon, don't dump the toys out.

Get your hand out of your pants.

OH NO! Haddon! STOP!

Please stop drooling all over.

I'll get you toilet paper. Go back to the bathroom.

Get your hand out of your pants.

Hey, you're gonna take my pants off!

Norah, pick up the bread in your room.

Do you want more juice?

Get your hand out of your pants.

And yeah, I did have to say some things over and over. I think if I were to be quoted in the yearbook, I might have been embarrassed.

Silverton Pet Parade

2009-05-17T13:34:00.001-07:00

I took the kids to Silverton on Saturday morning to watch the pet parade. Kids line up with their pets, and some dress up for it too. For instance, we saw two little girls that dressed up as fairies and so were their sheep. Any kind of pet that you can imagine was in the parade: dogs, cats, chicken, horses, and snakes! Norah wanted to take Salt and Pepper, but I wasn't in the mood to try and transport our sturdy fish.

Here's an idea of what went on:

Jacob, my oldest nephew, in the orange shirt, walking Ginger.

Haddon asking his "Nanna Tin" for more candy.

Noah is in this blue car with his friend Jacob, I believe. He and his big brother were the only ones to walk/ride in the actual parade.

Norah and Logan are only about 10 days apart, and they are a kick to watch interact. Here they are quite mesmerized with something. Norah's favorite thing was a weiner dog dressed up in a hot dog costume. She just laughed and laughed at that!

Ah, yes. Haddon was into the candy.

And Norah was into grabbing the candy. Sadie, got in the shot. Thanks Sadie.

Pumped for Park Pals

2009-05-15T12:26:00.000-07:00

So, we went to the last meeting of the Mom 'n' Tot play group with the church, and this week, since it is actually nice, was at a nearby park where we have gone several times.

Here's our pal Micah... being a little cheeseball!

Norah and Josiah thought up this pose. Gotta loves those legs!

Norah LOVES Cami. She wants a little sister sooo bad... I have to watch and make sure Norah doesn't try to steal her!

Brothers: Cade and Miles... and Cousins! The kids were very happy to see these guys were there.

Cami the Cutie...

The H-Bomb...

Haddon in a bubble.

Norah in the sunshine- yay! We Oregonians are itching for those rays!

Josiah, "Take my picture!" Okay, Siah.... How could I say no to that face?!

Cade is just a doll. Always a pleasure to be around, and I can't get over his big blue eyes!

That's it. We were certainly pumped for the fun we had today and will miss those Mom 'n' Tot groups, but we're thankful for the times that we've been able to make it.

Club Norah

2009-05-12T21:01:00.000-07:00

Tonight Norah went to Club Rocksalt, an AWANA-esque children's program at church, and before leaving, Casey was asking her is it was "Club Norah."

No! It wasn't. And then she proceeded to tell him the story of what "Club Norah" is...

First, Norah eats her food, and it goes into her stomach and shouts, "Hey let us out of here!" Then the food builds a clubhouse or tree house (depending on what version she's telling), but they build it too high. And that's what makes her cough.

So that is what Club Norah is: a bunch of food in Norah's stomach that comes to life as it is digested, and builds a Tower of Babel that causes her to cough.

Later, her dad asked if she would let her food out. (Daddy has a knack for starting interesting conversations, huh?!) She said, "Nope. That's why my mouth is closed. Hmph." And with lips shut tight, smiled in a sassy sort of way.

There you have it. Now you all know the inner-workings of our first-born's stomach.

Without Asking

2009-05-01T18:10:00.000-07:00

Today we're expecting some dear old friends for dinner, and so I was kind of tidying up the house as dinner was cooking. I was in Haddon's room putting toys away, and I hear: CLUNK! CLUNK! CLUNK!

What was that?

I looked into Norah's room across the hall, and there he was. My little man was picking up the toys in his sister's room. With each drop of a toy was a CLUNK.

I didn't ask him to do it. He just did. Without any asking or commanding.

It was very cute. And he proceeded to finish the job. Mom didn't even have to bother with that room. He did great!

Hula Rolla-Hoop

2009-04-26T17:09:00.001-07:00

That's what Norah calls it, "rolla-hoop," not hula-hoop. But she can do it, even though she can't pronounce it. Here are some pictures and video proof...

On another note, the quote of the day for Norah is, "I wish I had jewels in my teeth. Maybe when I'm older like six, or seven, or eight, or nine, or ten, or eleven, or twelve, or fourteen, or seventeen." Where does she get this stuff?

Uh... Clothes Have to Come off FIRST!

2009-04-24T13:28:00.000-07:00

I was sitting here at the computer, right next to the bathroom while Norah was hanging out in the tub. Haddon had no interest in the tub, and I didn't need to give him a bath, so he was just happily playing in his room. It was peaceful.

Then H comes out of his room, and looks into the bathroom. He went in, and I thought he was just talking to his sister.

"Mom! Haddon got in the tub! His clothes are on!"

There he was. Clothes all on, and smiling away. I took his shirt off, and then had the presence of mind to grab the camera. This is one to be documented.

You're Welcome.

Laugh Away.

5 out of 6

2009-04-22T08:03:00.000-07:00

Starting this weekend, Casey will be preaching five out of the next six Sundays. This weekend, he will be visiting sweet friends in Woodland and preaching at Grace Reformation Church. I hope that this is a good time, and an opportunity to be encouraged by the saints there.

In the following weeks, we will be visiting with a church in Bremerton, WA as well. Over the course of these visits, we hope that we will get to know the dear people there, and determine if serving there in ministry would be the right thing for both our family and that church family.

Needless to say, the month of May is going to be a time in which we are stretched, and we will need wisdom from the Lord to discern what the proper course of action is. I could write so much about our thoughts, the questions we have, and all that is on our hearts. But I won't right now.

Right now I simply ask that anyone who subcribes or follows this family blog of ours to pray, for we need prayer in the coming weeks. Pray for our faith and trust in God to be strong.

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."

Proverbs 3:5-6

"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways."

James 1:5-8

My Friend, "Elk Broad"*

2009-04-21T18:57:00.001-07:00

We are blessed with our friends The Edelbrock Family. Norah and Tayler are close in age, and the girls have fun together.

Here they are at the park and at Norah's birthday party. You can tell the difference in their personalities from the picture. Tayler is an outgoing, fun little girl, and Norah tends to get a little more reserved around her peers.

*Norah can't say Edelbrock, so it comes out Elk Broad... Like Jamie said, at least it's not Broad Elk! Oh Norah!

Dandelion Puffs

2009-04-20T15:36:00.001-07:00

When you were little did you make wishes on dandelion puffs? Well, Norah does, and this is what I witnessed today:

Norah, skipping around our weed-infested yard, stopped and picked a dandelion puff. She walked over to the chain link fence, and said with great conviction, "I wish I had I little sister!" Whoosh!

Then she exclaimed, "I wish that my brother had a little brother!" Whoosh! More tufts float into the air.

Maybe someday, but for now, it's fun to let her wish away and instruct her to pray for those blessings.

The End

A Huntin' We Will Go...

2009-04-17T15:24:00.000-07:00

for Easter eggs, that is. Not sure if anyone in our family has been real hunting, but at least Casey has branded cattle- that's something not everyone gets to do, and it's quite rugged and manly.

But I'm on a tangent. Let's get back to the point. Norah and Haddon searched our little yard for Easter eggs on Sunday, and they had a fun time doing so. Norah was so happy to get pennies, and Haddon felt gypped if there weren't M&M's in an egg.

We really did have them dressed up cute for Easter Sunday, but we didn't take pictures. Oh well.

Carousel

2009-04-05T14:36:00.001-07:00

We took the kids downtown to the Riverfront park today. They rode bikes (well, Haddon was pushed around on his), played at the playground, and rode the carousel. Here are some pics (that I snapped with my phone) from the carousel portion:

Norah is Four

2009-04-04T21:10:00.000-07:00

Norah turned four yesterday, and we had a party for her at Pietro's Pizza. Here's what went down:

Here's the singing of the song and blowing out the candles (which I missed when I went to film Haddon, who was being funny):

Here's the birthday cake, courtesy of Kelly's mom. Norah asked, "Can I keep those toys on there?"

Norah had been wanting an umbrella. She's a true Californian by birth:
A Barbie doll from Grandma and Grandpa Lute. Norah had seen this on TV commercials and wanted it because you can cut her hair:

Norah was probably most excited for this gift, a toy cat that she can decorate (which she did first thing this morning):

Norah's been really into Fairies lately. Here's one of the dolls she got. She looks very excited, and so do I for some reason:

Here's a new hat she got from her cousins:

Haddon was there too:

Back at home, we spread out all the gifts in the living room and the kids went a little crazy. It took them a while to get to bed, and they ended up melting down today. But they sure were excited last night:

All in all, it was a fun night. Norah received a lot of nice gifts, and she had a lot of fun too. She is blessed to have good friends and family. It's too bad her friends from Colorado couldn't be there this year, but hopefully this helps to give an idea of what went on.

Growing Kids

2009-03-24T19:58:00.001-07:00

Today, with it being Spring Break and me being off work, Norah and I decided to get the bikes back out and go for a little ride. After getting the bikes out of storage and pumping the tires back up, we noticed that Norah's seat needed to be raised 4-5 inches or so. Also, her helmet was a little tight, but it wasn't too bad. Then Haddon wanted to ride in the seat on the back of my bike. To get him in, we had to let the straps out a few inches. His helmet (which is Norah's old one, and is pink) is also a little small now.

These kids never stop growing. It hasn't even been 5 months since we last used the bikes, and they're so much bigger now. Norah especially is getting to be really tall. It will be interesting to get her into the doctor soon and find out what her height percentile is. Today I took her to the store and ran into some old friends. I told them that Norah was 3 years old and would be 4 really soon, and they were surprised, thinking she would be older than that.

Also, the bike ride was interesting. There is a steep hill up to our driveway, and Norah couldn't make it up, so I told her I would go park my bike up at the top and come back down to help her. Even so, she tried to go it alone and managed to crash her bike. She started crying, so I hurried Haddon out of his seat and went to get Norah, only I parked my bike on a sloped surface and it fell over on top of him, so we ended up with two crying kids. Fortunately, Kelly came out at that point and we managed to get things all fixed and get the kids inside.

Jewelry

2009-03-19T14:04:00.000-07:00

Today, I looked down at my necklace, and said, "Oh no!" For what I saw was that the opal from the pendant had come out of its setting. This is a necklace that I had received from my parents-in-law when they returned from Australia a few years ago.

Norah was very concerned, and a few minutes later, after I had found the stone and placed the necklace up for repair, she came to me and said, "Here mom. You can have this jewelry."

There before me, my little girl held up one of her play necklaces.

Bye-bye?

2009-03-17T07:39:00.000-07:00

Sometimes Haddon just gets an idea in his head, and I wasn't too sure what he was thinking yesterday evening. But we figured it out pretty quick.

It started with socks. He tugged and pulled, but just couldn't get them on. So mommy helped. Step 1: finished.

Then he grabbed his shoes. Struggling and fighting, and thinking about the function of Velcro- he did it! Step 2: finished.

Over to our makeshift coat closet he goes. And down comes my red jacket. "Ta-da!" he exclaims. Step 3: finished.

Now over to mommy for some help. Push those long sleeves up, and zip. Finally hood on. Step 4: finished.

The result.

Off to the door he ran, that is after he attempted to bring me my shoes. He as ready to go! But we stopped this as it was dark, and definitely not the time to leave. But cute as the whole process was, we needed a picture.

Norah felt left out. After all, she's cute too!

The End.