I mentioned in a previous post that I would share about a new venture that I have embarked on.
It all started when I wanted to make something special for my sister for her birthday. Her birthday came just a couple months after bringing home my newest niece and nephew from Ethiopia. With the addition of these last two (at least I think they are the last to be added to the family!), that my sister became a mom to 8. I have yet to see jewelry that nicely represents having 8 children. Either there are so many charms that it looks bulky, or if you use one of those locket necklaces with little charms in them, they are all bunched up and you can't really see them or show them ALL off.
So, I thought that if I got some beads or pearls small enough, I could cluster them together and learn how to make a wire nest pendant. After all, those are kind of trendy right now, and they are cute. I purchased some glass pearls in brown and cream to represent my sisters brown and white children, and then I learned how to make a wire pendant.
When my sister got it, she loved it! I mentioned to her casually that I might start making them to sell, maybe earn some money that we could put towards our adoption.
This is where the magic of social media comes in...
All my sister did was post a blog about it, and put a picture on Facebook, and I had contacts from at least 6 or more people within hours interested in a customized pendant!
Yikes! I didn't have a website. I didn't have a separate e-mail account. I didn't have a Pay Pal account (and there were people contacting me from out of state!). I didn't think that anyone would necessarily be that interested in what I did for my sister!
I was wrong.
I'm glad I was wrong.
My friend helped set up a website, complete with an order form. I set up a Pay Pal account, and stumbled through filling orders.
So, how did I come up with the name? Whenever I think of families, I think of how God brings families together and builds them. He designs families. He works in our lives to give and take away. He builds families through so many means, and in every way is written a story of His divine love and care- His design. Every family is made exactly the way God intends, and that's what I wanted to celebrate. That's what I want to give glory to God for.
Since then, I have been to a few craft bazaars or special events, and have tried to spread the word about what I'm doing. I get to hear a lot of stories about what families look like, or how they are designed. Each pendant or brooch (I can make straight pin brooches too) is so personal. It's a delight to make each one.
Soon my necklaces will be in a local boutique, and I have some other things in the works.
From the sales of these pendants and brooches alone, I've raised nearly $2000 for our adoption! I have never been "in the red". What an amazing blessing!
I love this new job that I have, and want to keep moving forward. My dream is to help other adopting families raise funds by "sponsoring" a family at a time. I'm not sure when I will get to that point, but I'm hoping that I will be able to do that! I need to gain much more exposure though.
So, how can you help?
Well, there are a few ways:
1. You might think of someone you could order a gift for (even yourself)! These nests are cute. They don't have to be worn by moms!
2. You can like the page on Facebook, if you're on there. That has proven to be one of the most effective ways that I have seen. It doesn't cost me anything, and it doesn't cost you anything! You can find the page here.
3. You can simply tell people you may know. Direct them to my website. Literally every cent that I make goes into our adoption account, and it sits there waiting for that moment that only the Lord knows, when we have our son or daughter! (You can see how we're doing towards our goal on the right-hand side of our blog).
4. Right now, you can enter my first giveaway. There are different ways that you can gain entries. You can enter here. You will be walked through all the different ways you can enter. Most of them involve helping to spread the word about the giveaway or A Nest by Design. So it really is helpful! And hey, if you win, that's great!
5. Always, you can pray. Pray that I will have wisdom to navigate through uncharted waters. I have no training in how to run a business. All I know that is I need to make more than I spend, and to be honest. Pray that people will be drawn to what I'm doing and that I will find support in unexpected sources.(I already have! Praise the Lord!)
What's lacking in this post are pictures, but if you visit any of the links I've shared, you will find pictures showing examples of some of my work.
Monday, March 18, 2013
Friday, March 15, 2013
The Happenings of Nothing Happening
It took our family until after Valentine's Day to get our New Year's letter out. I'll share it on here when I can. Our computer finally gave out, and that makes things a little weird right now.
I'm not sure how to describe our adoption process right now. It has been active but nothing is happening. We've been contacted about several birth mother situations locally, from Florida, and from Texas.
An unprecedented six birth mothers all came at once to one agency in Texas. One of the situations involved an infant that was already a month old! As far as we know, our profile hasn't been shown to any of them, as maybe a few have changed their mind, one is already matched, and another couple of them are having some hiccups with contacting birth fathers. As of right now, we're just waiting to see how it all plays out. We'll be told when that door is shut, or if we're selected as potential adoptive parents.
We also heard about a situation in Florida. It was a difficult one for us because after researching the medical needs of the unborn baby, we determined that we wouldn't be a good fit as a family for him. That was really hard to say no to! My how we agonized over it! And of course, I cried. A lot. It was really difficult to say no to a child that needed a family when that's the very thing that we're out to do. Maybe, that's not understandable to some who might be reading this, but we just didn't feel at peace allowing our profile to be shown. I know on April 9th, I'll be thinking of that baby boy, and I'll pray again for him, his birth mother, his birth father, and his adoptive parents. We were told of another in Florida that our program director thought that I would especially be a match for what this birth mother was looking for, but the fee for the adoption was way out of what we could or would pay. So that was another that wasn't for us.
Two more situations have been presented to us. Both are in our home state, and both a ones that we said yes to. The first, I don't imagine much of a shot at. The birth mother is looking at the first "round" of profiles this week, and if she doesn't find a family that she connects with, then we will be in the second "round". The second one we just heard about earlier this week. As of right now I don't know how many couples have said yes to this profile. So, I can't really say much about it. We're actually pretty surprised at how much is going on.
There's a lot of blessed opportunities to pray for these women as they make difficult decisions, and to pray that each child is safe and is brought into the right family. There's a huge peace knowing that the Lord is in control. Our child will come home to us, in His timing, in His way. All these situations that we hear about are opportunities to pray for the people involved knowing that if one is ours, then he or she will be ours. All the others just belong to someone else! The joy is in knowing that these babies belong to someone!
So we continue to wait. We continue to save, and we'll be brainstorming fundraising ideas. I'm still selling necklaces and brooches. In fact, to help generate more publicity, I'm doing a giveaway right now. You can check it out here. Visit A Nest by Design here if you're curious. My heart is to grow this into something that I can help other adopting families raise funds. That's a bit in the future though.
I'm not sure how to describe our adoption process right now. It has been active but nothing is happening. We've been contacted about several birth mother situations locally, from Florida, and from Texas.
An unprecedented six birth mothers all came at once to one agency in Texas. One of the situations involved an infant that was already a month old! As far as we know, our profile hasn't been shown to any of them, as maybe a few have changed their mind, one is already matched, and another couple of them are having some hiccups with contacting birth fathers. As of right now, we're just waiting to see how it all plays out. We'll be told when that door is shut, or if we're selected as potential adoptive parents.
We also heard about a situation in Florida. It was a difficult one for us because after researching the medical needs of the unborn baby, we determined that we wouldn't be a good fit as a family for him. That was really hard to say no to! My how we agonized over it! And of course, I cried. A lot. It was really difficult to say no to a child that needed a family when that's the very thing that we're out to do. Maybe, that's not understandable to some who might be reading this, but we just didn't feel at peace allowing our profile to be shown. I know on April 9th, I'll be thinking of that baby boy, and I'll pray again for him, his birth mother, his birth father, and his adoptive parents. We were told of another in Florida that our program director thought that I would especially be a match for what this birth mother was looking for, but the fee for the adoption was way out of what we could or would pay. So that was another that wasn't for us.
Two more situations have been presented to us. Both are in our home state, and both a ones that we said yes to. The first, I don't imagine much of a shot at. The birth mother is looking at the first "round" of profiles this week, and if she doesn't find a family that she connects with, then we will be in the second "round". The second one we just heard about earlier this week. As of right now I don't know how many couples have said yes to this profile. So, I can't really say much about it. We're actually pretty surprised at how much is going on.
There's a lot of blessed opportunities to pray for these women as they make difficult decisions, and to pray that each child is safe and is brought into the right family. There's a huge peace knowing that the Lord is in control. Our child will come home to us, in His timing, in His way. All these situations that we hear about are opportunities to pray for the people involved knowing that if one is ours, then he or she will be ours. All the others just belong to someone else! The joy is in knowing that these babies belong to someone!
So we continue to wait. We continue to save, and we'll be brainstorming fundraising ideas. I'm still selling necklaces and brooches. In fact, to help generate more publicity, I'm doing a giveaway right now. You can check it out here. Visit A Nest by Design here if you're curious. My heart is to grow this into something that I can help other adopting families raise funds. That's a bit in the future though.
Monday, February 4, 2013
Anniversary Weekend
For our tenth wedding anniversary we wanted to get some time away and simply enjoy each other's company. So Casey planned the weekend and surprised me with going to Portland.
On our way up there we had a little something to drop off:
Yay! That was a great way to start the weekend!
Then we had dinner reservations at McCormick and Schmick's on the waterfront. Delicious!
In Portland we stayed at the Hotel deLuxe, and it is absolutely beautiful! We've never stayed in a nicer place.
The weekend was filled with walking around Portland, visiting Powell's Books, and going to a Blazer game. On our last night there after the Blazer game, we went to the hotel's Driftwood Room for appetizers, only to find it too crowded to get in! They didn't even have room for a local news anchorman, as he was in the overflow in the lobby! We loved "celebrity" spotting. We were able to try the food later, and it was amazing!
All in all, it was a nice, relaxing time together. We laughed and enjoyed having a special time together celebrating the ten years that God has gifted us with in our marriage.
On our way up there we had a little something to drop off:
Yay! That was a great way to start the weekend!
Then we had dinner reservations at McCormick and Schmick's on the waterfront. Delicious!
In Portland we stayed at the Hotel deLuxe, and it is absolutely beautiful! We've never stayed in a nicer place.
The weekend was filled with walking around Portland, visiting Powell's Books, and going to a Blazer game. On our last night there after the Blazer game, we went to the hotel's Driftwood Room for appetizers, only to find it too crowded to get in! They didn't even have room for a local news anchorman, as he was in the overflow in the lobby! We loved "celebrity" spotting. We were able to try the food later, and it was amazing!
All in all, it was a nice, relaxing time together. We laughed and enjoyed having a special time together celebrating the ten years that God has gifted us with in our marriage.
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Thursday, January 31, 2013
Ten Years...
3,650 days
87,600 hours
5,256,000 minutes
31,536,000 seconds
3 states
8 moves
7 houses
2 kids
2 cats
5 ER/Urgent Care visits
6 cars
Too many fish
4 microwaves
3 televisions
4 dvd players
One Marriage for a Lifetime
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
The Adoption Post
This is it. The adoption post. My goal is to give you a timeline of how we've gotten to where we are, and hopefully, give you a little education on what the adoption process looks like. Adoption can be a labyrinth of paperwork and errands, but it's also a labor to redeem someone. That, my friends, is a costly journey, and one worth the effort. But I could probably write more about that later.
January 10, 2012: Adoption orientation class with Christian Family Adoptions. It was after this meeting that we decided to go through this agency. We liked how they were smaller, but well-networked. They were very straight forward about costs, and we just generally felt comfortable with the staff members that we met.
January 28, 2012: We mailed in our initial application and fee to CFA.
June 23, 2012: Waiting Families Seminar. At this seminar, we spent an entire day discussing adoption-related issues. We explored topics like racial identity, and ethnic hair care. We listened to a birth mother share her story, and heard from other adoptive families about what their experiences have been. We were in this seminar all day from 8 am to 5 pm. This is a required class with CFA, and part of the education hours needed as part of the home study. It was a LONG day!
June 29, 2012: We had all our documents ready to be mailed in for our home study. An adoption home study is a collection of documents. It has everything about yourself in it. We had to write a mini biography about ourselves, answer questions about why we want to adopt, parenting philosophy, our family, and our marriage. We needed to provide information about our finances and budget, as well as name guardians should we both pass. There is a criminal background check, and we also had to have current physicals with a document signed by our doctor rating our health. Letters from our employers were included, as well as information about our medical insurance stating when an adopted child would be covered under it. I'm sure there's more, but I'm just not remembering it all right now. You get the idea though.
October 25, 2012: Last envelope to mail! The two final components of the home study were our reference letters and our education. Ten hours of education are required, and that came from the seminar as well as reading materials provided by CFA. We needed to answer questions about parenting an adopted child, and about some of the issues that can arise with adopted children- like questions that come up about why they were relinquished, why they look different than their parents, dealing with the loss of their biological family, etc. We needed to draw from the resources we were given.
We also got all our reference letters in. These were to be mailed directly to our agency. Once those all came in, we were able to schedule our first home visit.
November 7, 2012: First home visit. Becky, our case worker, came to our house, met our children, and spoke with us. She had some questions for the kids like what they thought would be different with a little brother or sister. She asked if they wanted to have a baby in the house, and what they like to play with. Becky used the things that we had already written as a launch pad for further questions about our marriage, parenting and our lives.
The home visit sounds scary, but all it really is, is a chance for the case worker to make sure that you have a safe home (there's a form that needed to be filled out ensuring that we have running water, electricity, proper living spaces, and smoke detectors), and to also get a sense of you as an adopting couple. Beyond the paperwork that we submitted, our caseworker needed to have information to best be able to write the "official" home study document that would describe who we are and what our personalities are like.
She spent about 2 to 3 hours in our home, and in that time she took a tour of the house (led by Haddon!), interviewed our kids briefly, and did part of a joint interview with both of us, and did Casey's one-on-one interview.
November 20, 2012: Second home visit. Becky came for a second time to finish up what she started. This time she was able to look at the outside of our house, finish the second half of our joint interview, and do my interview.
January 2013: Final home study draft written, and photo books ordered! We got our final draft of the home study in early January, and then spent the remainder of the month finalizing our profile book. The profile book is a photo book that we put together to introduce ourselves to birth families. In it we include pictures of us, our kids, and our family and friends. We write about our activities, and likes and dislikes.
We were so grateful for the help we got to save money on ordering them! We needed to order 12 photo books, and they would have cost over $300, but with coupon codes and sale promos, we saved over $190! Praise the Lord! As of today, all of them have been shipped to us, but they haven't all arrived (though there may be more in our mailbox. We just haven't checked the mail yet!)
That's where we are. Once we get the books to CFA, we'll have a discussion with the director about some parameters in what we would be open to in an adoption. (There's a lot of things that can come up like lack or prenatal care or drug use and the like that has to be discussed.)
When there is a birth mother that may be a good match for us comes up, they will send us a "fact" sheet about her and the birth father, and then it's up to us to decide if we want to be "shown" to her as potential adoptive parents for her baby. If we choose to be shown, then it is up to her to decide if she wants to continue getting to know us better.
There you have it! The Adoption Post. Now you're caught up. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. We really want to be able to help people understand adoption more- as far as we understand things!
January 10, 2012: Adoption orientation class with Christian Family Adoptions. It was after this meeting that we decided to go through this agency. We liked how they were smaller, but well-networked. They were very straight forward about costs, and we just generally felt comfortable with the staff members that we met.
January 28, 2012: We mailed in our initial application and fee to CFA.
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| Here we are with the initial stuff that we needed to mail in. |
June 23, 2012: Waiting Families Seminar. At this seminar, we spent an entire day discussing adoption-related issues. We explored topics like racial identity, and ethnic hair care. We listened to a birth mother share her story, and heard from other adoptive families about what their experiences have been. We were in this seminar all day from 8 am to 5 pm. This is a required class with CFA, and part of the education hours needed as part of the home study. It was a LONG day!
June 29, 2012: We had all our documents ready to be mailed in for our home study. An adoption home study is a collection of documents. It has everything about yourself in it. We had to write a mini biography about ourselves, answer questions about why we want to adopt, parenting philosophy, our family, and our marriage. We needed to provide information about our finances and budget, as well as name guardians should we both pass. There is a criminal background check, and we also had to have current physicals with a document signed by our doctor rating our health. Letters from our employers were included, as well as information about our medical insurance stating when an adopted child would be covered under it. I'm sure there's more, but I'm just not remembering it all right now. You get the idea though.
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| Our entire lives, in one envelope. |
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| Post office! A nice lady behind me in line was willing to take this picture. She was excited to help us document the moment. |
October 25, 2012: Last envelope to mail! The two final components of the home study were our reference letters and our education. Ten hours of education are required, and that came from the seminar as well as reading materials provided by CFA. We needed to answer questions about parenting an adopted child, and about some of the issues that can arise with adopted children- like questions that come up about why they were relinquished, why they look different than their parents, dealing with the loss of their biological family, etc. We needed to draw from the resources we were given.
We also got all our reference letters in. These were to be mailed directly to our agency. Once those all came in, we were able to schedule our first home visit.
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The home visit sounds scary, but all it really is, is a chance for the case worker to make sure that you have a safe home (there's a form that needed to be filled out ensuring that we have running water, electricity, proper living spaces, and smoke detectors), and to also get a sense of you as an adopting couple. Beyond the paperwork that we submitted, our caseworker needed to have information to best be able to write the "official" home study document that would describe who we are and what our personalities are like.
She spent about 2 to 3 hours in our home, and in that time she took a tour of the house (led by Haddon!), interviewed our kids briefly, and did part of a joint interview with both of us, and did Casey's one-on-one interview.
November 20, 2012: Second home visit. Becky came for a second time to finish up what she started. This time she was able to look at the outside of our house, finish the second half of our joint interview, and do my interview.
January 2013: Final home study draft written, and photo books ordered! We got our final draft of the home study in early January, and then spent the remainder of the month finalizing our profile book. The profile book is a photo book that we put together to introduce ourselves to birth families. In it we include pictures of us, our kids, and our family and friends. We write about our activities, and likes and dislikes.
We were so grateful for the help we got to save money on ordering them! We needed to order 12 photo books, and they would have cost over $300, but with coupon codes and sale promos, we saved over $190! Praise the Lord! As of today, all of them have been shipped to us, but they haven't all arrived (though there may be more in our mailbox. We just haven't checked the mail yet!)
That's where we are. Once we get the books to CFA, we'll have a discussion with the director about some parameters in what we would be open to in an adoption. (There's a lot of things that can come up like lack or prenatal care or drug use and the like that has to be discussed.)
When there is a birth mother that may be a good match for us comes up, they will send us a "fact" sheet about her and the birth father, and then it's up to us to decide if we want to be "shown" to her as potential adoptive parents for her baby. If we choose to be shown, then it is up to her to decide if she wants to continue getting to know us better.
There you have it! The Adoption Post. Now you're caught up. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. We really want to be able to help people understand adoption more- as far as we understand things!
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
While We Were Out...
You know, life moves fast. So here's the ultimate catch-up post while we were out. It should be followed by an adoption follow-up post, but we'll leave you hanging (really, what does it matter? We've left those following us only through this blog hanging for many many many moons!) That will come later.
Ready. Set. Go.
We left you here with the addition of Miller to our slew of nieces and nephews. Aw.
We painted our house, but I won't post pictures of that because there are creeps out there who may happen upon this blog. That was a big deal! And It made a huge difference! (Okay, now I'm just rubbing it in.) But that was a huge blessing.
Also, our pastor went on a sabbatical, and Casey had many opportunities throughout the summer to preach. Our church has been an amazing blessing to us and a source of support and joy. We're so grateful for ministry opportunities, and a church family to share our lives with. You can catch Casey's sermons from the church webpage.
The summer was marked with getting all our home study paperwork done, household projects, and of course, our boy's birthday.
Also, around Haddon's birthday, we love to have people over for the Fourth of July. People who live around us spend a ridiculous amount of money on illegal fireworks, much to our enjoyment. So we like to share in the fun, and have people over to sit up on the hill with us, and look at all the brightness that surrounds us. By far, one of the coolest things I've put together were these fruit kabobs:
In August we joined Casey's side of the family for vacation in central Oregon. There's not much to tell. We rode bikes, played board games, went to a fish hatchery, that sort of thing. It's always nice to be around people you love.
Also, in August we welcomed Haile (pronounced "high-lay"), and Beti ("beh-tee") into our family all the way form Ethiopia. My sister and her husband started the adoption process as we did. They saw them on a waiting children website, and knew that they belonged with their family. We're so glad that they are with us, and although there are a lot of adjustments, God has been incredibly gracious towards our whole family as they have grafted in. We love adding to our niece/nephew count!
We rounded out the summer with different activities like going to the Tillamook Cheese Factory, a Volcanoes game, and the like.
Then the kids started at a new school in September (their school that we had transferred them into was closed by the school district). Norah began second grade, and Haddon started kindergarten. We're so glad that we waited to start him in school. He needed that additional year of pre-school, and being old for his grade is much more preferable to being the youngest!
I have a "first day of school" picture for Norah, but sadly, not for Haddon. We were invited to go to the Pastors and Wives Retreat. So, we had planned on going late up to that to be able to see H off for his first day (kindergarteners start a week later than other students), but then we discovered lice on his first day of school! So, both Norah and Haddon had to be treated (we buzzed his hair too), and he was able to start the next day- when we were out of town! Boo!
Oh well. Life is more than getting a first day of school shot. Right?
The end of September marks my sister's birthday. For months I had been planning a special gift for her that would be unique. I had this idea to make her a nest pendant out of wire and glass pearls. I had seen these on Etsy and Pinterest as a way for mother's to have jewelry that represented their children. I didn't see anything that had as many as 8 eggs though. Well, I made it with 5 cream and 3 brown to represent her different colored children. The response from people was overwhelming, so I decided to start making them to raise funds for our adoption.
So, A Nest by Design was started. I scrambled to make a website, get an e-mail address, and set up PayPal so that I could meet the instant demand! What a blessing!
I'll write more about this later, but for now, you can visit the website and see what we've accomplished. (You can also like A Nest by Design on Facebook too!) I would not have been able to do any of it without the help of my friend Michelle. Her help and support have been more valuable to me than I even have words to describe.
So with the start of the school year there was routine again, and events like the Jog-a-thon, and a big craft bazaar (which I sold nests at).
We visited a local pumpkin patch, and dressed up for Halloween. Nothing too crazy, but it was cool to see Norah be able to wear my old poodle skirt, and I made Haddon's bat costume by myself!
Thanksgiving was nice this year because we (well, the kids and I) got to spend it with both sides. Casey is still working graves so, sometimes things are difficult to schedule and participate in.
We were able to go to a Beavers basketball game, and that was fun.
We had a very nice Christmas season, and ended the year nicely. We had our yearly Hanukkah night, and this was the first year that I made challah bread. Every year we tend to sort through what things we like to make and what recipes turn out well. Casey blogged about it, so you can check it out.
I got an early present this year just a few days before Christmas. Casey took the kids out and picked out a kitten! So Obie has a friend- which he absolutely hated at first. So we had to have Ezekiel in the back room for about a week so that Obadiah could get used to his scent. We're having a lot of fun with these kitties.
Christmas was a little different this year. On Christmas Eve, instead of being with my family in the evening, we celebrated in the morning. My mother made a LOT of breakfast foods for us to gorge ourselves on, and then we opened presents and such. I made the dinner/lunch, which resulted in far too much food. It was a blessing to see Haile and Beti have their first American Christmas.
We went to church on Christmas Eve, and our family lit the last candle of advent. We were super proud of Norah as she read from Isaiah in front of the whole church. It wasn't an easy passage to read for a 7-year-old, but she did awesome! I wish we had pictures or a video of it, but we totally spaced on it.
In the morning, we had out own time together as a family, and then headed over to Casey's parents'. There we had a brunch and opened presents. It's always a very casual time, and we enjoy spending time with family on Christmas.
Whew! We've almost made it!
Our goal was to have our home study completed by the end of the year, and we missed the mark by only a few weeks (again, I'll write more about that in an adoption post), but we're so glad that it's done and that we're beginning the new year waiting. We have a lot of hope, as maybe all people do at the start of a new year, but this year is particularly poised to bring changes.
Casey is working on being ordained, and that should be finished by the end of March. We just ordered photo books as our family profile books that will be shown to birthmothers. We could get chosen or matched at any time once those are published and in the hands of our agency. As you look at those Christmas pictures, they may be the last ones in which we're a family of four. Then again, they may not be, but we have hope that they are.
The last thing I'll share to bring you up to speed is that Downton Abbey season 3 premiered in the beginning of January, and since I have discovered that I have many friends who share in my love for the period drama, I hosted a premiere night viewing party. It was so much fun to have friends over and laugh at the same jokes, and enjoy a good, entertaining and clean program together. Here we are "Doing the Downton."
If you made it through to the very end, thank you. You rank among those that stuck with Harry to the end. If you didn't, that's okay. This was long, but I consider it a personal fete to have written such a lengthy, yet concise, blog post. Considering it has been nearly a year, it's good to get it all out. Now on to more regular posts! (Well, after a sizable adoption update.)
Ready. Set. Go.
We left you here with the addition of Miller to our slew of nieces and nephews. Aw.
We painted our house, but I won't post pictures of that because there are creeps out there who may happen upon this blog. That was a big deal! And It made a huge difference! (Okay, now I'm just rubbing it in.) But that was a huge blessing.
Also, our pastor went on a sabbatical, and Casey had many opportunities throughout the summer to preach. Our church has been an amazing blessing to us and a source of support and joy. We're so grateful for ministry opportunities, and a church family to share our lives with. You can catch Casey's sermons from the church webpage.
The summer was marked with getting all our home study paperwork done, household projects, and of course, our boy's birthday.
Also, around Haddon's birthday, we love to have people over for the Fourth of July. People who live around us spend a ridiculous amount of money on illegal fireworks, much to our enjoyment. So we like to share in the fun, and have people over to sit up on the hill with us, and look at all the brightness that surrounds us. By far, one of the coolest things I've put together were these fruit kabobs:
In August we joined Casey's side of the family for vacation in central Oregon. There's not much to tell. We rode bikes, played board games, went to a fish hatchery, that sort of thing. It's always nice to be around people you love.
Also, in August we welcomed Haile (pronounced "high-lay"), and Beti ("beh-tee") into our family all the way form Ethiopia. My sister and her husband started the adoption process as we did. They saw them on a waiting children website, and knew that they belonged with their family. We're so glad that they are with us, and although there are a lot of adjustments, God has been incredibly gracious towards our whole family as they have grafted in. We love adding to our niece/nephew count!
We rounded out the summer with different activities like going to the Tillamook Cheese Factory, a Volcanoes game, and the like.
Then the kids started at a new school in September (their school that we had transferred them into was closed by the school district). Norah began second grade, and Haddon started kindergarten. We're so glad that we waited to start him in school. He needed that additional year of pre-school, and being old for his grade is much more preferable to being the youngest!
I have a "first day of school" picture for Norah, but sadly, not for Haddon. We were invited to go to the Pastors and Wives Retreat. So, we had planned on going late up to that to be able to see H off for his first day (kindergarteners start a week later than other students), but then we discovered lice on his first day of school! So, both Norah and Haddon had to be treated (we buzzed his hair too), and he was able to start the next day- when we were out of town! Boo!
Oh well. Life is more than getting a first day of school shot. Right?
The end of September marks my sister's birthday. For months I had been planning a special gift for her that would be unique. I had this idea to make her a nest pendant out of wire and glass pearls. I had seen these on Etsy and Pinterest as a way for mother's to have jewelry that represented their children. I didn't see anything that had as many as 8 eggs though. Well, I made it with 5 cream and 3 brown to represent her different colored children. The response from people was overwhelming, so I decided to start making them to raise funds for our adoption.
So, A Nest by Design was started. I scrambled to make a website, get an e-mail address, and set up PayPal so that I could meet the instant demand! What a blessing!
I'll write more about this later, but for now, you can visit the website and see what we've accomplished. (You can also like A Nest by Design on Facebook too!) I would not have been able to do any of it without the help of my friend Michelle. Her help and support have been more valuable to me than I even have words to describe.
So with the start of the school year there was routine again, and events like the Jog-a-thon, and a big craft bazaar (which I sold nests at).
We visited a local pumpkin patch, and dressed up for Halloween. Nothing too crazy, but it was cool to see Norah be able to wear my old poodle skirt, and I made Haddon's bat costume by myself!
Thanksgiving was nice this year because we (well, the kids and I) got to spend it with both sides. Casey is still working graves so, sometimes things are difficult to schedule and participate in.
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| Miller! My how you've grown! |
We were able to go to a Beavers basketball game, and that was fun.
We had a very nice Christmas season, and ended the year nicely. We had our yearly Hanukkah night, and this was the first year that I made challah bread. Every year we tend to sort through what things we like to make and what recipes turn out well. Casey blogged about it, so you can check it out.
I got an early present this year just a few days before Christmas. Casey took the kids out and picked out a kitten! So Obie has a friend- which he absolutely hated at first. So we had to have Ezekiel in the back room for about a week so that Obadiah could get used to his scent. We're having a lot of fun with these kitties.
Christmas was a little different this year. On Christmas Eve, instead of being with my family in the evening, we celebrated in the morning. My mother made a LOT of breakfast foods for us to gorge ourselves on, and then we opened presents and such. I made the dinner/lunch, which resulted in far too much food. It was a blessing to see Haile and Beti have their first American Christmas.
We went to church on Christmas Eve, and our family lit the last candle of advent. We were super proud of Norah as she read from Isaiah in front of the whole church. It wasn't an easy passage to read for a 7-year-old, but she did awesome! I wish we had pictures or a video of it, but we totally spaced on it.
In the morning, we had out own time together as a family, and then headed over to Casey's parents'. There we had a brunch and opened presents. It's always a very casual time, and we enjoy spending time with family on Christmas.
Whew! We've almost made it!
Our goal was to have our home study completed by the end of the year, and we missed the mark by only a few weeks (again, I'll write more about that in an adoption post), but we're so glad that it's done and that we're beginning the new year waiting. We have a lot of hope, as maybe all people do at the start of a new year, but this year is particularly poised to bring changes.
Casey is working on being ordained, and that should be finished by the end of March. We just ordered photo books as our family profile books that will be shown to birthmothers. We could get chosen or matched at any time once those are published and in the hands of our agency. As you look at those Christmas pictures, they may be the last ones in which we're a family of four. Then again, they may not be, but we have hope that they are.
The last thing I'll share to bring you up to speed is that Downton Abbey season 3 premiered in the beginning of January, and since I have discovered that I have many friends who share in my love for the period drama, I hosted a premiere night viewing party. It was so much fun to have friends over and laugh at the same jokes, and enjoy a good, entertaining and clean program together. Here we are "Doing the Downton."
If you made it through to the very end, thank you. You rank among those that stuck with Harry to the end. If you didn't, that's okay. This was long, but I consider it a personal fete to have written such a lengthy, yet concise, blog post. Considering it has been nearly a year, it's good to get it all out. Now on to more regular posts! (Well, after a sizable adoption update.)
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Welcome Miller James!
This past week we welcomed Miller into the family, and as you can see in the picture above, Haddon was pretty pleased with his new cousin.
As we prepared to go to the hospital, and talked with the children about Miller's arrival, Haddon becan to think that we were going to the hospital to get his new brother! He was excited and wanted to hold him!
Of course we explained that we may have to wait a long time and that he may get a sister instead. We also explained that Uncle Kyle and Aunt Kari get to keep this baby!
He was alright with that as long as he got to see and hold the baby.
This was a sweet confirmation of God's work in Haddon's heart to prepare him to be a big brother. He's ready to take on that challenge and is excited to do so. This is such an answer to prayer for us. We know that he will have adjustments to make- of course we all will- but it is wonderful to see his enthusiasm.
I mean, seriously, he was ready for us to just take Miller home with us!
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