Why We're Doing What We're Doing

Waiting is a theme in our lives, especially in the last three years. Among all the things that we have waited for, none has been more awaited than starting the adoption process. The waiting goes far beyond the last three years and back into the days of when Casey and I were dating. For me, it goes even further.

You see, one of the most important people in my life is a woman who I don't even know. I don't know her name. I don't know what she looks like. I don't know a single thing about her except that once upon a time, she carried me in her womb and loved me enough to let me go. That single act has shaped my life so profoundly that I'm not even sure I could completely describe it.

Certain things define who you are, and one of the things that defines me is my adoption. As I have grown up, my adoption has helped me understand the greater thing that defines me: my identity in Christ.

You see, when I was born, I needed a family. For whatever reason, the best thing for me was not staying with my birth mother. I needed help. I needed someone to take me in and call me their own and give me all the things that I couldn't get for myself or do for myself.

I needed to be adopted.

We all need to be adopted.

We are all born into what is not best for us. Sin is not the best for us, and even though it's not best, it's what we choose over and over again, even when we don't want to. We can't be good enough or do anything to solve the sin problem in our lives.

That's where the greatest grace comes in. Jesus died, taking our punishment for the sins we committed, and through faith in him, we're offered a new life, and adopted into God's family.

This is God's plan for his people. Throughout all of Scripture, every story, every book is pointing towards Christ. It is all a giant tapestry woven together for his glory and to restore what was broken by sin.

In love he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ.

(Ephesians 1:5)

Casey and I have talked about this truth so many times. It is dear to our hearts. We have talked about all the things that make us excited about adopting a child into our family. We value the lesson it will teach our children, that families aren't held together by flesh and blood but by love. We want our family to experience God's provision in building our family. We want to be stretched in our faith and step out not knowing what trials or hardships or waiting may come from the adoption process.

Most of all. We want to live out the gospel in a way that so closely parallels what our Savior has done for us.

Please join us. Please walk with journey with us. Pray for us. Pray for our son or daughter who God is preparing for our family. Pray for our family that the Lord would prepare our hearts for the journey, especially our children.

We'll try to keep folks updated here, and of course we'll still share pictures of our adorable children and tell the stories of the funny things they do.

We just want people to know why we're doing what we're doing.